Age isn’t always on our side. As we get older, our bodies start to slowly break down. We’ll ache in places we never knew that we could ache in, and it can make things difficult. We still want to have amazing and mind-blowing sex, but our bodies aren’t always on board with that.
It sucks, but we are a persistent bunch. We aren’t about to give up on our sex lives just because we are fighting against ageing. So here are some of the hottest sex positions for mature couples to try, no matter what your body is telling you.
Closed leg doggy
You get to a certain age and stop referring to your knees as ‘left’ and ‘right’. Suddenly they’ll become ‘good’ and ‘bad’. It can make certain sex positions tough. Doggy is a real challenge because you have to be on your knees for an extended period of time. This is usually a favourite for the receiver because it hits all of the right pleasure spots in the body.
So take it easy on your knees. Instead of kneeling on the bed and waiting for your partner to take you, lie down on your front. Get your body flat on the bed with your legs together. This will save your knees the pain of holding yourself in that position for too long.
It also provides amazing stimulation to you and your partner. You’ll feel tighter, which will enhance things for your partner. It’ll also make each stroke into your body feel more intense, and so you’ll find it pleasurable. That’s a win for your knees and a win for your orgasm!
Seated sex
When we hop into bed for sex, we end up lying down. This usually puts one person in charge and can be a nightmare for your back and arms in an attempt to support yourself or your partner. It is tough, so instead of fucking in bed, why not grab a chair?
Chair sex is a lot of fun. Not only does it feel a little kinky, but it also means you are saving your back. It’s kind on the back as instead your legs will be the focus… and even then, you don’t have to use a lot of effort to make it feel good.
If you can steady your feet on the floor and can cope with the bouncing, go for it. If not then simply grind your body back and forth. It’ll change the sensations while still feeling good.
Spooning
One of the absolute best positions to do is spooning sex. This is perfect not just for mature couples, but for anyone requiring a little more intimacy in their relationship.
You and your partner will lie down in bed, with the receiver’s back pressed against their partner’s front. The person behind can slide their hands over your body to turn you on. Then you can slowly accept their member into your body.
It gives you greater control over the pace and the depth of the penetration. It also ensures that you can go for longer. The intimacy it brings makes it one of the best sex positions around to try, and you’ll feel like you can keep at it all night thanks to this position!
Sex positions for mature couples
You don’t have to make huge adjustments to your sex life in order to accommodate your needs. If you find that certain positions aggravate your body, change them. Close your legs, lie down, adjust the angle. Do whatever you need to feel good.
Mature couples don’t really need specific sex positions to feel good. In fact, the positions above are favourites for many because they feel good without adding too much strain to the body. What more could you ask for?
Got a few favourite positions of your own you’d like to share? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below. How do you think mature couples can improve their sex lives?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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