There are certain sex acts that we tend to be closed-lipped about. We will only share them with long-term partners we trust, with escorts we feel will not judge us for our interests, or with open-minded partners. But even then people start to talk, which is how the word first got out about pegging.
Pegging is one of those sex acts that some don’t feel comfortable admitting that they like, but it has become increasingly popular in bedrooms all around the world. So what is it about pegging that we love so much, and how can you get started if you are eager to give it a try?
What is pegging?
Pegging is, simply put, a sexual practice where a woman performs anal on a man. This is often done with the use of a strap-on, and can sometimes also include the man’s cock being stimulated to make it even more intense.
It first began as a way to stimulate the prostate, as this can create one hell of an intense orgasm for men. Slipping a finger into the ass works, but many found that they wanted more. They wanted to experiment with anal in some way, and so pegging was developed.
It has appeared a lot in the media, and was most recently brought to light when it appeared in Deadpool. At one point, we see Vanessa tighten the harness of the strap-on, before we get a look at Wade’s face as she tells him “Happy International Women’s Day”.
Why it works for both partners
While the act was primarily developed as a way to enhance the pleasure of a man in the bedroom, it isn’t all about him. In fact, both parties get a lot of pleasure from this act. For a start, it is thrilling to try something new… especially something that involves the taboo of anal.
It is also going to turn you on to submit to your partner in this way. You’ll bend over and let them spread your cheeks for the strap-on, and it is going to turn them on as well to dominate you like this. It’ll bring you closer together.
Plus, with the strap-ons you can buy, you can ensure both of you are being physically pleasured. The base of the dildo might rub on her clit with each thrust, or you might get a special double-ended harness which means you are both being fucked at the same time.
Prepare to be pegged
You need to approach the act the same way that you would with any other form of anal play. That is, you’ll need to prepare for it properly. If you rush it, you could get hurt or do some serious damage. So take your time.
You’ll need lube. Specifically a water-based lube. Other types of lube can ruin your sex toys, and since these toys are the main part of the act, you are going to want to take care of them properly. Wash them before and after each use and treat them properly and you’ll find that they last you a good long while.
You don’t have to take the biggest cock up your ass if you aren’t ready for it. In fact, the chances are that your partner will understand. They’ll help you choose the right size, and you can start as small as you feel comfortable with. In time you’ll find that you can go bigger, but for your first time we suggest opting for a small and smooth dildo.
Switching roles
There are so many different reasons why we love pegging. It is great to completely switch roles in the bedroom, and for women it is great to be the one in control and fucking your partner from behind. For the man it is a taboo, which turns them on more, and the stimulation on the prostate will lead to one of the most incredible orgasms ever.
That said, not everyone is ready to take the plunge. They feel that anal isn’t for them, or fear that it would be too painful. Do you have experience being pegged that you would like to share? If so, leave a comment in the box below and tell us your top tips!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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