How many times have you had sex without getting naked first? We imagine that it isn’t a lot of the time. Often we want to get completely out of our clothes so that we can properly appreciate our partner’s body. We want to touch every inch of them and leave them feeling good.
However, fucking with clothes on is a big turn on. It’s a thrill for us to try, as it feels like we are doing something we aren’t supposed to. We associate getting naked with sex, so breaking the mould in this way can really spice things up.
Why it works
Getting naked is the norm when it comes to sex. You’ll start off slowly stripping each other, revealing their body slowly but surely so that you can appreciate them. Then you can take your time to place your tongue everywhere you can, tasting them.
But for some people, the biggest thrill comes from keeping clothes on during sex. They don’t want to strip off and reveal all. Not yet. They want to make you wait for it.
They might go out dressed in a specific way just so that you can have hot and passionate sex without stripping off layers. It feels naughty and this makes us want to do it even more! No wonder so many couples are keeping their clothes on.
However, for some the idea of taking clothes off is a problem. A lack of body confidence means that a number of women don’t want to strip off. They’d rather stay clothed… so what can you do with your clothes on?
Old school make-out
If you want to enjoy being intimate without taking your clothes off, then you can go for an old school make-out session. Sit on the sofa with your partner and start to kiss them all over.
In no time at all you’ll find that things start to get hot. The temptation to strip off and get down to business will be intense, but try to withstand it. You can always slip your hands under their clothes instead and into their pants.
It will still feel good, and resisting the urge to take your clothes off is going to add a whole new level to it. You can unzip and unfasten, just don’t take them off!
The perfect quickie
When you are just in a rush for sex and need it now, clothes can be the barrier you really didn’t have to deal with. Sure, it seems like a good idea to strip them off and throw them everywhere, but then you have to collect them together again afterwards and nobody really has time for that after mind-blowing sex.
So keep them on and dress for the occasion. Women can wear a skirt or dress, with panties you can easily pull to one side. Men can have trousers with a zip to allow easy access.
Then all you have to do is take out your cock, pull their panties aside, and you can fuck. It’s ideal for bending them over the kitchen counter and taking them from behind, or even lifting them against the wall for some animalistic sex!
Don’t get naked!
There really is no feeling quite as hot as knowing you are going to fuck your partner but keeping your clothes on. Instead of getting naked you get right down to business, meaning that it is all about the sex. No teasing, no delaying orgasms – just raw sex.
Do you prefer clothes on or off for sex? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below. Are you a naked fan or do you like the kinky thrill of clothed sex?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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