A blowjob is heavenly for a guy – even if you suck at it (pun intended). If you’re feeling like your oral sex skills are not up to it spicing up your routine a bit isn’t difficult. These tips are meant not only for those who wishes to step up your game when it comes to giving your partner fellatio, but also for newbie’s who wish to learn how to give him a blowjob so good, he’ll go weak at the knees.
Pre Foreplay
No one would expect you to be a porn star the first time round. Take it slow and start of the night with some pre-foreplay. Have a nice romantic dinner with some wine. That would help to relax your senses. During dinner, maintain intimate body contact to keep your adrenaline going.
The Foreplay
Once the dinner is over and the both of you are somewhere private, maintain eye contact and deep kissing.
Slowly sit him down while removing his shoes and socks maintain eye contact all this while. Undo his belt and help him off his trousers. Tease him by giving a trail of light kisses from his ankle to his inner thigh while his underpants is still on.
Move his body, getting him to lie back and relax, and remove his underpants and breathe heavily with your mouth at his balls.
Before you go down on him, undress yourself slowly so that he can be visually stimulated, and see your boobs during the entire process. If there’s a mirror in the room, position yourself in such a way that he can see you doggy style, and your bum in the air.
Points to Note Before Proceeding
1) Make sure both of you are in a position which is comfortable. You won’t want getting your neck sore after the entire process.
2) Prevent using too much teeth or sucking too hard as it may cause pain.
3) Avoid abrasion by keeping your mouth moist with saliva and hands lubricated.
4) Don’t rush it. It’ll make him feel like you just wish to get over with it and the entire process was a chore.
The Explorer
Use your hands to caress and massage his balls and grab the base of his shaft. Lick the balls slowly (think Popsicle) and suck on them gently. Lick upwards to the shaft and move your tongue in circles at the head. Nibble the head and push back the foreskin with your tongue and lips. Go open mouth and take the length in your mouth inch by inch. With your hands at the base of your shaft, suck in synchronized movements with your hands.
Figure 8
Taking the entire length in your mouth, move your nose in figure 8 while licking the head. Use your tongue and lips at varying degree of pressure.
Vocalist
In between the sounds of you sucking him off, give him a deep moan or two that will make him feel like you’re getting off too. Try to hum and moan while he’s in your mouth. The vibrations create an added sensation. Better yet, rub your clitoris a little while going down on him to make him think that you’re so turned on by giving him a blowjob that you just couldn’t handle it anymore.
Hot & Cold
When moving your mouth upwards towards head, suck in air with your mouth so that he can feel cold air. While going downwards towards the base of the shaft, blow air with your mouth so that he alternates between feeling hot and cold air. Repeat for a few times.
Alternatively, you can run an ice cube down his shaft and the head of his cock before your warm the entire are with your tongue, then your mouth.
You may try with cold and/or hot water too.
The Popsicle
Nibble and lick him like a Popsicle. Push back the foreskin with your lips and tongue and circle the head from its tip to the base of the head. Ensure that your mouth is wet so that it doesn’t chaff or pain him, as this is one of the most sensitive part of his cock. Create a rhythm by slowly licking up and down his entire length and the balls.
The Taste Tester
Dribble foods such as whipped cream, honey, jam or jelly from his thigh to his cock and balls, and lick it off as hungrily and messily as possible. Pause in between to kiss him hard on the mouth so that he can taste the food and himself. It’s one of those intense interludes that immediately heightens, rather than slackens his pleasure.
Deep Throat
It’s something you have to be comfortable with. Most are concerned about the gag reflex. Therefore, go real slow and made sure you’ve enough saliva to lubricate the entire length before deep throat.
In this case, practice makes perfect. Practice on a banana and breathe through your nose until you get the hang of it. Go slow and give yourself plenty of time to learn this difficult but worthwhile skill.
Alternate between the various methods above, not forgetting to pause at times to kiss and caress other sensitive areas (like grabbing his sexy ass or thumbing his nipples). In summary, alternate the use of your tongue, lips, mouth, breath and hands to spice things up.
Swallow Or Not?
A lot of fuss has been made over swallowing or not. The answer is simple. If you don’t like the taste of his cum, don’t make a big deal out of it. Getting him to unload on your boobs can be as sexy. You can also spit it out if you dislike the taste of his cum, choose to finish off with a hand job or by mounting him the finishing it the old-fashioned way.
Remember, the more pleasure you feel, the more turned on he will be.
If you need any more tips on giving a blowjob, why not make an appointment with one of the Galway escorts? They certainly know a trick or two!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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