Girls, from our point of view, blowjobs look quite easy to do. Judging from what we’ve seen in porn, all you have to do is bob your head up and down, gag a little bit, and take the load whenever the money shot is around the corner.
However, you shouldn’t forget the fact that looks can be deceiving. Maybe bobbing your head up and down, gagging a little bit, and actually forcing the load out the guy would be too much for him to handle, and not in a good way.
There are a lot of ‘dos’ that you can do when you’re giving fellatio to your boyfriend or fuck-buddy, but there are a few ‘donts’ that you should definitely avoid when you’re planning to go down on your man. Remember, we’re not all pornstars.
Stop licking his dickhead so much
It’s obvious that the most sensitive part of the cock is the glans, also known as the tip, or the head, or whatever you normally call it.
If you’re going to keep attacking it with your lips and tongue, you’re going to make your man look like he’s hearing someone clawing their nails down a chalkboard. He would be feeling the same sensation as someone dipping his tongue too hard underneath your clit hood; no one can get off on that.
What would be the solution? Just play with every part of the cock, and have some fun with it. Whether it would be licking his shaft or playing with his balls, your guy would be able to enjoy the blowjob if you play with every part of his dick.
Stop gripping his cock too hard
Not putting enough pressure on the dick is one thing, but gripping the cock as if you’re trying to pop a pimple is worse. What you girls have to remember is that the cock isn’t a muscle, it is a sponge that gets filled up with a lot of blood when erected.
How does the blood travel to the cock? Through the veins and arteries, of course!
If you’re going to grab him hard while you’re sucking his cock, your man is going to feel like he has been taken hostage. You’ll end up leaving a handprint on his shaft, along with a unfond memory of your hand and mouth.
My word of advice would be to listen to your man when you’re holding his cock. Sexily ask him if he likes and if he wants you to hold his shaft harder or not. Every guy is different and so is every cock that you’d interact with.
Stop doing nothing
Remember I told you that porn sometimes makes the girl look like she’s just bobbing her head up and down. Well, I’m afraid that simply bobbing your head up and down is not going to cut it for him, nor will letting his cock sit your mouth for 10 minutes.
You can’t expect your guy to do the whole work in the bedroom; it defeats the point of you giving the blowjob. What should you do? Use that mouth of yours! Trace your tongue around his dick and suck him as you hold his entire length in your mouth.
If you think that you have to always move at a fast pace, you don’t have to do so unless the guy is close to cumming. In fact, fluctuating in speed and pressure would keep your guy on his toes, and would make his orgasm more intense than if you keep doing the same thing again and again.
There are other things that you may have to watch out for when performing a blowjob, like touching his balls, barfing too much, and spitting on his cock too much, but they all vary from man to man. However, the three ‘donts’ that I’ve mentioned in this article are the ones that you’re going to remember until you become too old to suck cocks anymore.
She is possibly most famous for her erotic stories, but is equally adept at giving top quality sex advice, all the time bringing in her 'personal experiences'.
When she isn't sharing her most intimate encounters, Zoe keeps herself active by watching videos on Youtube, and listening to music.
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