If you are into BDSM then you’ll know how the attitudes of others can taint it. They think it is all whips and chains. They don’t understand that the bond you form with your domme. They believe that all they do is hit you until you cry for them to stop. That isn’t the case at all.
BDSM is so much more than that. If you love BDSM, then you are going to be more open minded. You will have this desire to explore your sexuality and discover your turn ons. You want to know what makes you tick.
Best of all, a recent study has actually come out to show that being interested in BDSM can actually be good for you. It is healthy to enjoy bondage, it seems, and who are we to argue with science?
Stay healthy with sex
Science is capable of many amazing things. We are constantly learning thanks to the different studies they like to do. There have been plenty of different sex studies throughout the years to tell us things that we never thought we needed to know about sex.
Many of the studies just give us the perfect excuse to have sex. For example, you might have had a partner say to you “not tonight, I have a headache”. It can really put a dampener on your sex drive, but you’ll be pleased to know that this is no longer a valid excuse. Science has proven to us that having an orgasm is a great way to stop pain. So next time you have a headache, an orgasm is just what the doctor ordered.
It also counts as exercise. Sure, it might not be as good as hitting the gym, but it is definitely going to be a great warm up or cool down! Having sex is a great way to stay healthy as it is an effective way to get rid of stress.
Having regular sex can help to keep your blood pressure down and keep your heart healthy. If you get into a routine, it can even ease you to sleep each night. It also feels amazing. No wonder we love sex so much!
Why we love BDSM
We also love BDSM. While a lot of people enjoy vanilla sex, some of us are more than happy to kink things up a little. We might do this by getting a little more forceful during sex, making it rough. We might even decide to tie our partner down so that we can have our wicked way with them.
It can be difficult sometimes to know just what your partner wants during sex to make them happy. BDSM is different. During BDSM your partner will make it clear to you what they need. They will give you commands, and as a dutiful slave you will do your best to fulfil these commands.
You want to do everything to please them. After all, you are their submissive. As their sub, you want to follow their orders. If you stray, you will be punished.
This is great for us because we don’t have to guess. We can just let loose. Your focus goes entirely onto doing what they have told you to, instead of what might have happened at work. BDSM is a great distraction… and it is also healthy for you.
How is BDSM healthy for you?
For a lot of people, BDSM seems like one of the least healthy things that you can do. They don’t understand how something so kinky can be so freeing. Well, thanks to science, we now have an explanation.
The recent study tells us what we already suspected… and that is that BDSM is healthy for you. But why? What is it about BDSM makes it healthy?
According to the scientists at the Northern Illinois University, BDSM can “help bring about ‘the flow'”, which is when you are at your most productive and creative. This means that you work faster and more efficiently than before.
Maybe it is time that you called up a dominatrix and see for yourself?
Will you take up BDSM?
Personally I love enjoying BDSM. It is great to let yourself get a little kinky every now and then. It is even better when you get to push your limits, as you are with somebody you really trust.
Thanks to the Fifty Shades series, more and more people are eager to try out BDSM. Even more want to give it a go after hearing that it could be healthy for you. Will you be one of them, or are you going to say no to the world of kink?
Let us know what you think by voting in the poll below or by leaving a comment in the box below. You could even join in the discussion on the Escort Ireland forum!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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