All posts by Laura Lee

Irish mother, writer, animal lover, perpetual student and sex workers' rights campaigner.

Top Tips for Blow Jobs: Master the Art of Pleasure

When it comes to intimacy, knowing how to give a mind-blowing blow job can create unforgettable moments. Whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life or become more confident in your technique, there are plenty of practical tips to elevate your oral game. From mastering the correct pressure to managing your gag reflex, here are all the tips for blow jobs you need to know.  

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EROTIC STORY: My First Lesbian Experience with My Best Friend  

Life has a way of catching you off guard, unravelling desires you didn’t even know were hidden. My first lesbian experience with my best friend wasn’t planned, but it became the most sensual and eye-opening moment of my life. It all began on a lazy evening, a confession that turned into an invitation and a kiss that changed everything.  

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Women’s Day 2025: Celebrating Empowerment in the Industry

Every year, as March approaches, Women’s Day 2025 reminds us of the importance of recognizing female empowerment and success stories. This time, in 2025, this celebration takes on a bold tone as we specifically spotlight the powerful women shaping the sex industry. Now more than ever, female empowerment has never been more visible, clearly proving that resilience and ambition thrive in every space, including this often-misunderstood industry. Ultimately, these women continue to break barriers, challenge perceptions, and redefine success on their terms.  

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Recognising International Sex Workers’ Rights Day 2025

Every year, on March 3rd, International Sex Workers’ Rights Day serves as a platform to highlight the voices and experiences of people in the industry. Originally established in 2001 in India, this day aims to recognize the diverse lives of sex workers around the world. More than just a date on the calendar, it’s about acknowledging challenges, promoting visibility, and fostering respect.

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Trends to Watch in the Adult Industry for 2025

The adult industry is constantly evolving, shaped by technological breakthroughs and changing societal perspectives. In 2025, the landscape is transforming significantly, redefining how clients, service providers, and platforms operate. Let’s explore the trends to watch in the adult industry in 2025, merging trends and reshaping this dynamic and diverse sector.  

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Sex, Lies, and Statistics – The Laura Lee Blog

The title of this review should give you a good idea of what I’m going to be talking about with the following proviso; I enjoy sex and statistics, but I hate lies. For that reason I was very excited when Dr. Brooke Magnanti announced the release of her book, which addresses a lot of the common lies which are spun, quite deliberately, by prohibitionists against the sex industry. I’ve been a sex worker for a long time, so I know from first hand experience that a lot of the information which comes from prohibitionists is to put it kindly, erroneous in fact. Quite apart from the fact that Magnanti is herself a retired call girl, she’s also a scientist, kinda handy when it comes to statistical analyses. Continue reading Sex, Lies, and Statistics – The Laura Lee Blog

An Open Letter to Teenagers – The Laura Lee blog

 know what you’re thinking , as you read the title to this blog. “Whooooaa there, open letters are no longer a thing.” Just because someone on Twitter decided two years ago that they’re no longer a thing, I’m afraid that’s tough. That’s the beauty of having your own blog y’see, you dodge the Cool Police, to an extent anyway. You can use your own blog to post pictures of cats, cupcake recipes, hell you can even make incendiary remarks. Example – “If you put the number of super-injunctions in Northern Ireland end to end, you could circle the North Pole, twice. Fact.” Continue reading An Open Letter to Teenagers – The Laura Lee blog

Guardians of the Peace – The Laura Lee Blog

There is a lot to be said for the sensible, evidence based approach to policing adopted by the PSNI in Northern Ireland when it comes to sex work. When I say evidence based, they look for actual harm before bringing down the sledgehammer of the law, their goal being “keeping people safe”. It may amaze some readers to learn that sex workers are people too. The PSNI get it right on many levels, it’s far better for them to know who is working and where, so that they’re aware of any issues which may arise in the future, and through many meetings in formulating our alliance, they also guaranteed that they don’t record on file that a person is a “known prostitute”. That practice is adopted by a number of police forces, and is highly dangerous. Firstly, it stops sex workers identifying themselves and coming forward to report crime, and secondly, it prevents exit. It will come up on a background check, although the person has committed no crime. Continue reading Guardians of the Peace – The Laura Lee Blog