You may be one of those men who not only loves giving oral to a sexy lady, but also knows the right and wrong way to do it. You’ll know just how to move your fingers to get her to orgasm, how to rub your tongue on her clit, and what to do when she started moaning and groaning beneath you. But there are also plenty of men out there who have no idea about eating pussy properly.
You might have some great tips that you want to share with others to let them know the right and wrong way to eat her out, and if so you can join in the discussion on the Escort Ireland forum. If, on the other hand, you are feeling a bit clueless about what you should be doing in bed to give her mind-blowing orgasms with nothing more than your mouth, you’re in the right place. Here on the Escort Ireland blog we take a look at the five oral sex tips that you need to know.
It’s a marathon, not a sprint
One of the biggest problems that people face when giving oral sex is that they give it their all in the first minute, as that’s what they see people doing in porn films. In porn films, the woman orgasms immediately and if it works for them then why not try it for yourself?
Of course, porns contain a lot of fake things, orgasms included, and these films have been cut to make it seems as though the guy has had his head buried between her legs for hours, but that really isn’t the case. So, instead of stiffening up your tongue and getting tired after two minutes of vigorous tongue-wiggling, relax a little.
Keep your tongue nice and relaxed as you gently rub it back and forth slowly over her clit. This will get her far more turned on that you trying to rub her clit off with your tongue, and the slow building of tension will get her to an intense orgasm. Pace yourself if you really want to please her.
Keep your tongue outside her body
Something that a lot of men seem to do is try and put their tongue into the pussy. They read about this technique in erotic fiction, and so think that their tongue is a nice replacement for their fingers.
The problem is that putting your tongue into her pussy will do absolutely nothing for her. It feels really weird, for a start, and if that isn’t enough of a turn off, your tongue won’t actually be able to reach far enough into her sweet pussy to do anything for her.
Instead, keep your tongue outside of her body. Gently lick her pussy lips before giving special attention to her clit, and you’ll find that this works out much better for her than anything else.
Forget what you already know
You may have done a decent amount of research into eating pussy, and so you may think you know all there is to know about getting it right, but you might actually have learnt all of the wrong techniques.
Have you heard about the alphabet technique, where you rub your tongue on her clit to spell out different letters of the alphabet? Yes? Well, stop using it. All you are doing is constantly changing your technique each time, which is very frustrating for her.
Women need the same constant stimulation in order to reach orgasm, and the slightest change can actually cause her to lose her orgasm. If you’ve ever had a blowjob end before you reached the climax, you’ll know how frustrating that is, so if you really want to go using letters from the alphabet, stick to just the one.
Nice and easy does it every time
For a lot of men, they want their partner to get to orgasm quickly. They think that their tongue isn’t enough for that, and so while they are gently licking at her clit, they’ll slide a finger or two into her awaiting cunt.
When the do, however, a large number will do it wrong. They’ll speed their tongue up to match their thrusting fingers, and will keep thrusting hard and fast in the hope that she will get to orgasm quickly.
As we’ve said earlier, it is a marathon, not a sprint, so instead of matching your tongue to your fingers, match your fingers to your tongue. Keep the slow and steady pace of your tongue on her clit going, and gently slide your fingers in and out. This nice and easy pace will build her up slowly and you can enjoy every moan as she reaches her peak.
Get comfortable
It isn’t exactly a secret that a lot of women struggle to reach orgasm without the right stimulation, and even with the right techniques like the ones suggested above, it can take them a while to get there.
A rookie mistake that some men make is that they just get down and start going for it without thinking of comfort levels. You might find that, a few minutes into it, your shoulders are hurting from keeping yourself up, or that your partner is wiggling a lot in an attempt to get comfortable.
Take the time before you ever start to let her get into a comfortable position. Get some soft towels for her to lie on, if she needs them, and have pillows to prop her ass up. It will position her perfect for some good, long, and intense oral sex.
Do you have some other amazing oral sex tips that you would like to share with people like you, or have you discovered a cool new trick to get her off in just a few minutes? Let us know by posting about it in the comment box below, or visit the Escort Ireland forum and join in the discussion over there.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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