Alcohol consumption, age and the number of people we had sex with are considered the most common lies told by the majority of people. Interesting, right?
Sex is one of the most intimate and bonding experience two adults have, isn’t it? Then how come many choose to lie about it? Before sayings “ I never lie when it comes to sex”, think again. Guys, it’s time to admit that we’ve all lied at least once, before, during, or after having sex. Some lies are insignificant while others can really harm the relationship and the people involved, even when nobody intended to do that.
Lies regarding STDs and birth control pills are unforgivable, and so are the “sleeping with other people but I used protection” fabrications. These could really hurt the other person, not only physically but also mentally.
Think about it. If you are in a relationship, go out, get drunk and sleep with a lady without a condom, you might get an STD and infect your partner, too. This is why most of you prefer seeing escorts instead of hooking up with random people.
Anyway, as I said not all lies are unforgivable. So here are the most common sex lies women tell their partners before, during or after sex:
Guys Inflate and Girls Forget
As mentioned above, the number of people we slept with is one of the most common lies people tell. You all know that guys usually say they had more partners while ladies deliberately forget some of their sexy encounters.
If you ask me, this happens only because of the social pressure. If he has slept with a couple of women he is not a “real man” and if the number of partners is big she is definitely “easy as Sunday morning”.
Anyway, this is not something that can hurt your partner unless the number of partners you slept with is a deal breaker. And in this case, you might be the one who wants to “ break the deal”.
“Sorry Love, I Am on My Period!”
Guys, I am sure you heard these words before and sometimes they were telling the truth. However, there are moments when ladies use this sneaky lie just to get rid of your horny ass. Why don’t they tell the truth?
Well, my friends, it’s easier this way, isn’t it? “ I am not in the mood right now” means that she might be a bit later, while being on her period leaves no room for you to bother her with your sexual desires.
Also, sometimes women are not sure if they want to sleep with you so they try to delay the sexy moment with this tricky but harmless lie. If she tells you “ I don’t know if I want to have sex with you”, her mixed up feelings might make you feel really bad about yourself. So, it’s not such a bad lie after all.
“I Don’t Watch Porn ( When I am Not Alone)”
For so many years porn industry was just a “man’s world”, so nobody should be shocked when women lie about watching sexy movies. Most porn movies are just about men’s pleasure or else why would you think that sex ends when men come?
Also, when “Fifty Shades of Grey” created a craze among women everybody started disapproving with ladies who were reading that book. Really? Pornhub is OK but “Fifty Shades of Grey” is not? Yes, it’s bad literature but I’ve never heard about a porn movie winning an Oscar either. And then you wonder why women lie!
“I Don’t Masturbate ( Oh, Wait! Yes I Do!)”
Some women don’t know that acting like a lady doesn’t involve not masturbating. They lie about it because they believe that what they do it’s not normal and they are afraid of being judged.
Oh well, hopefully, this way of thinking will completely change. Until then, please let the ladies masturbate and just pretend you believe their lies! Women also pretend to believe yours from time to time!
You’re the First Person I’ve Ever Done This with!
As mentioned before, women who sleep with more men are considered easy. Now, women who experiment different things are also considered bad. So, maybe because they feel the need to be accepted and not judged, they lie about “ the first time they do certain things”.
The bad part is that if they happen to have a real relationship with the guy they lie to, they will never know if he likes them for who they are. So, you better tell the truth!
You’re the Best Lover Ever!
If your companion told you that you are the best lover, it doesn’t necessary mean you are not. Of course, it may be bullshit!
Why do women lie about this? Honestly, I have no idea. If you ask me, everytime a lady says that to a man, he believes it and stops trying. Girl, that’s bad for us!
Anyway, if she really thinks you are the best lover ever, you will see that in the way she acts. So, you better pay attention to he actions, not only to her words.
“Of Course I Had an Orgasm!”
And here’s another lie that brings a lot of harm to women all over the world. Ladies, why do you sabotage your own sexual life with such lies? Some women probably believe that it doesn’t matter if they never have an orgasm and they just fake it.
Not having an orgasm is not the end of the world. However, pretending you have one is pretty bad. Men shouldn’t feel incompetent if their ladies don’t climax, but they should try to offer them this pleasure. And women should definitely be honest if they truly want healthy sex lives and relationships.
What Sex Lies Have Women Told You?
As you can see, there are many kinds of lies women tell. At the same times, there are plenty of lies guys tell so, don’t feel superior because you are as sneaky as they are. However, men’s sex lies are a subject for a different time.
Since we are talking about ladies, please share with us the most common sex lies women told you! You can use the comment box below or start a conversation on the Escort Ireland blog! It’s time to share your thoughts and experiences because sharing is caring!
She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.
When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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