I think a lot of women forget that guys like receiving simple things, like a pilsner bottle opener, bacon, or even a handjob.
For me, a handjob is a nice gesture to give my man after he’s cooked me dinner, helped me with my essays, or when I feel like he’s been a really good boyfriend to me.
Getting your hands lubed up!
For people who are in long-term relationships, it shows to your man that you still find him attractive and that you enjoy pleasuring him. It’s also a great way to get your fuck buddy to send you a text asking you when you’re next free.
What I do beforehand is rub some hand cream on my palms. I would have to make sure that it’s alcohol-free, though, because you never know if your partner is allergic to ethanol or not. Other than that, your partner would appreciate the sensation of your smooth hands massaging his shaft.
Obviously, every guy is different, therefore it’s good to check out his anatomy before you start touching his manhood. If he’s uncircumcised, there’s no need for you to go all guns blazing on his cock because his cock would be very sensitive to touch. If he is circumcised, you should apply a little more pressure on his cock as the sensation would have dissipated a little after his operation.
Next, you have to make sure that you’re both in a comfortable position to start performing on him. The worst thing you can experience is a cramp in your wrist from jacking him off for 15 minutes.
Even though it adds extra muscle to your forearms, handjobs are not a form of cardiovascular exercise. Your companion wouldn’t appreciate you making his manhood red and sore for the next couple of days, and you wouldn’t enjoy having a stretched tendon in your hand – it could happen!
The ideal time for a naughty play!
Everyone loves morning sex but sometimes they can feel a bit too groggy to start moving their hips. So, you can give him a good start to the day when you both wake up.
You have your arms wrapped around your partner and he has his hands resting on your waist. Slowly, you start to rub your hands over his shoulders and biceps, and you shift your body closer to his. You can get a little bit cheeky and gently caress his ass. Then, you begin to slide your hand onto his shaft and tease him with your fingertip. As you feel the blood rushing down to his cock, you start to stroke his shaft with your thumb, index and middle finger.
Now I have to mention this to you, girls. You don’t have to use your whole hand to pleasure him. A little bit of touching gives more sensation to your partner as you start to rub him.
If you’re not completely sure how to give someone a handjob, the best way to learn is by watching your man masturbate or watch some guys jerking off on ‘chaturbate’ or ‘xvideos’. Not only does it turn me on when I watch my partner jack off, it gives me insight on how he likes to be touched.
After you throw the bed sheets to one side and expose his cock, you can rest your head on his chest and your arm is resting on his stomach. No man likes to feel friction, so it’s advised that you have a bottle of lube by your side; I would recommend buying one with aloe vera extracts because it’s good for the skin. If you don’t have any lube, then spitting is always an alternative.
A little teasing goes a long way!
One thing that I like to do is slip a finger from my spare hand into his mouth, so he would start to lick and suck on it. It’s a good indicator for me to know what motion I should perform on him.
For example, if he starts sucking on my finger slowly, I would gently wrap my whole hand around the bottom of his shaft and slowly slide it up with a bit of pressure. Or if he starts licking the tip of my finger, I would begin to stroke the head of his cock. For me, it’s a better than me asking him
“Is that good?”
“Would like me to go harder?”
“Faster?”
It’s too awkward for me to ask and it makes me look like I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing. Sometimes I like to tease him where he is most sensitive to keep his brain wired. I would rub my thumb across the tip where it would make him gasp for air. However, the tip is one of the most sensitive parts of his cock. If you stroke it continuously, his shaft may start to get too painful for him to handle.
From this point, you would be able to tell when he’s getting close to the edge.
When he is near climaxing, you don’t want to increase your tempo rapidly as it would kill the sensation for him. Instead, you should apply more pressure on his shaft and rub his cock a fraction faster than before. You can continue to play with him by stroking his balls every time your hand goes down. However, not every guy likes thstso if he starts to get a little silent, don’t touch it again.
Whatever you do, don’t stop stroking him. Think about your guy licking your pussy and you’re getting close to climaxing; you wouldn’t want him to stop. Therefore, you keep doing exactly what you’re doing until he orgasms. One thing I like to do is bring my lips close to his and begin to breathe into his mouth. It’s a little bit like breath play where I tease him by not kissing him.
Another idea to bring into the mix is whispering dirty things into his ear. Guys are a sucker for ear-candy, so you could put on your sexy tone and make him moan by the sound of your voice. If there are 3 words that men love to hear when their cocks are hard, it would be:
“Cum for me.”
Before you know it, your hand is drenched in his spunk and his moan sounds like a rooster crowing in the morning!
You can be adventurous!
While playing in the bedroom is all well and good, it doesn’t mean that it is the only place you can give him a handjob. After you both get back home from a long day at work, you two can enter the shower and start to play with his cock. Use a mild soap as a lubricant when you begin to stroke him, and he will still come out of the shower nice and clean after getting dirty in the bathroom.
You may not know it, but guys like their women to take control too. A good surprise for him would be if you creep up behind him and keep his body close to yours. You begin to slide your hands up his shirt and rub his abs and chest before you put them down his pants and unzip his trousers. If he’s up for it, you can bind his wrists together so it would be impossible for him to touch you; it’s the perfect tease for him to endure!
I’m a frisky girl and I like to be cheeky. There was one time when I was at a pub with some of my friends. We were sitting at a table and we were all having a laugh until a guy who I was seeing turned up. I let him join us and we both got a little tipsy after the next hour of chatting. While I was still talking to my friends, he began to slide his hand up my thigh and rub my clit through my underwear. I decided to clutch onto his leg before unzipping his jeans underneath the table and stroke his throbbing cock. I enjoyed watching him struggle to talk as I nearly made him orgasm under the table.
I am a very naughty girl, I know!
If you have any tips of your own that you want to share, feel free to let us know in the comments down below!
She is possibly most famous for her erotic stories, but is equally adept at giving top quality sex advice, all the time bringing in her 'personal experiences'.
When she isn't sharing her most intimate encounters, Zoe keeps herself active by watching videos on Youtube, and listening to music.
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