BDSM is a fetish that many of us are keen to explore if we haven’t already. It is kinky and fun, and the taboo surrounding it makes it even more appealing to up. Thanks to popular films like Fifty Shades, more and more people want to try it. They’ll have seen some hot BDSM movie scenes and want to know if it is really that good.
There are plenty of big films out there that have featured the world of kink in one way or another. It really helps to inspire us in the bedroom, especially if we have seen something really sexy on the silver screen.
Here on the Escort Ireland blog we take a look at our favourite BDSM movie scenes. Have a look to see if your favourites are on the list, or if there are some you think we should have mentioned.
Secretary
The idea of a dominant and a submissive in a relationship together was still pretty new to a lot of people when the film Secretary came out in 2002 . The film, starring Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader, showed the relationship between an eccentric attorney and his secretary.
It wouldn’t have been enough to just have them enjoying an affair. Oh no. Spader’s character was a dominant who found Gyllenhaal’s submissive nature to be a huge turn on, and so they began to enjoy a BDSM relationship.
There are so many memorable scenes from the film for us to enjoy, but one of the hottest has to be the spanking scene, which you can watch above. In it, Gyllenhaal is instructed to bend over the desk and read a letter while Spader spanks her.
It is a huge turn on to watch because she is trying to remain composed and read the letter while being spanked. She wants to follow her dom’s instructions, and he is doing his best to try and make her mess up in some way so he can continue to punish her.
A Dangerous Method
Continuing on the lines of spanking we have A Dangerous Mind. Starring Michael Fassbender and Keira Knightley, we get to see another kind of taboo relationship… this time between a patient and a doctor.
We get to see Keira Knightley bent over and spanked, both with a hand and with a belt. It is kinky to watch, but is even more of a turn on because she is sometimes tied. Her hands are bound together on the bed so that she has to take the punishment. Best of all, she enjoys it! Spanking isn’t just a punishment… it can also be a kinky reward.
Eyes Wide Shut
When people think of the film Eyes Wide Shut they tend to think of one scene in particular: the sex party. For a lot of people it is how they imagine a swingers party to go, but this one isn’t quite as open.
Tom Cruise’s character has to use a password to get in to the party, all while wearing a mask. Nobody knows who he is, and he doesn’t know who anyone at the party is. The masks hide them, making this one of our favourite BDSM movie scenes for this added layer of kink.
If you love exhibitionism or voyeurism, you’ll know why this scene is so appealing. You get to see lots of hot couples fucking over desks, on sofas, or even just standing. It might just be some couples having their fun, or you might see threesomes taking place.
The idea of being watched during sex is a huge turn on for many of us. It makes us want to put on a show and let those watching see just what we can do. It is kinky and a hell of a fun of fun, which is why this film has inspired so many of us throughout the years.
Fifty Shades of Grey
This might be a surprising one for you to see on the list. After all, a lot of people don’t enjoy the Fifty Shades series. They find that the books are about an abusive relationship that the author has tried to wrap up in a sub/dom relationship bow. It doesn’t work for us. However, there is something that the series does get really right: the contract.
Steele (played by Dakota Johnson) sits down to discuss the contract with Grey (Jamie Dornan). This scene shows just how much control the sub should have. She reads through the contract, striking out acts that she doesn’t like the idea of, like anal fisting. While Grey proves not to be a good dom later in the series, this scene goes to show just what a good dom should do. They should listen to what their sub wants and where their limits are.
Other BDSM movie scenes
There are so many kinky films out there for you to enjoy. More and more films are showing their sexy side. This means that we get to watch BDSM movie scenes in mainstream films instead of going to a specialist porn site. Okay, so a lot of the time they can get the details wrong, but it is a start.
Our favourite BDSM movie scenes can inspire us a little, making us think outside of the box. We have plenty of hot ideas after watching sex scenes in film. Have you got a favourite film showing BDSM that we have missed from the list? Let us know what you think by leaving a comment in the box below.
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