If you were to ask people for their thoughts on pegging, you’d probably get one of two responses. For some it is something they’d love to try out for themselves but they don’t have the confidence to ask for it. Others immediately go “anal stuff? But that’s gay”.
Needless to say, anyone who likes being pegged by their partner isn’t automatically gay. In fact, a large number of those in straight relationships like it. Why is that? I take a look on the Escort Ireland blog.
What is pegging?
To put it in simple terms, if someone wants to be pegged, they want their partner to anally penetrate them. Often it is a female partner penetrating the male. The most common way of doing this is to use a strap on, but some opt to simply use a dildo or some other toy in achieve similar results.
It has gone by a number of different names throughout the years, such as the bend over boyfriend, but it gained the name pegging following a contest in Dan Savage’s ‘Savage Love’ column back in 2001. This term was the most popular and as a result it has stuck.
In recent years it has become a hot sex act for many couples to enjoy. Since it stimulates the prostate, it can lead to some incredible orgasms for the receiver, while putting the giver in a new position of power.
Why is it so intimate?
It is one of those sex acts that those interested in it find very intimate and sexy. To those on the outside it can be difficult to figure out why. What is it about being taken anally by your partner like this that turns us on?
For a start, it really shows how much you and your partner trust each other. Sex is all about trust, and sharing this interest of yours allow you to explore that. It is often a complete change in dynamics, giving your partner control over you. This is incredibly thrilling, especially when you get to look at your partner with a cock dangling between their legs.
Not only will pegging provide the man with a different kind of sex, but it also opens up a world of new stimulations. When being pegged, your partner will likely hit your prostate. This will feel amazing for you and can lead to an intense orgasm. Plus, using the right kind of strap on gives your partner the chance to receive clitoral stimulation, ensuring you both walk away happy!
Ease into it
As with any other kind of anal fun, when it comes to being pegged, you need to ease into it. Don’t just assume that lubing up means you’ll be able to take anything in the ass. Instead, you’ll want to start with fingers to explore.
Whether it is your partner’s finger going up your ass or your own, you’ll want to trim your nails. Long nails and your ass don’t mix, unless you want to be scratched from the inside. It’ll hurt and is the last thing that you want in this situation.
From the finger you can then try things like plugs and anal training toys to help you to open up a little more. They don’t have to be huge, but you’ll find that using them can aid you in the future. You’ll be well prepared for using a strap on if you do it this way.
Getting the right strap on
You might be looking for strap ons and find that you are really tempted by the biggest, baddest looking ones. This might be good as a long-term goal, but for your first times you’ll want to go for something a little slimmer.
There are many strap ons out there designed for beginners. You should also opt for one that is slightly curved to help stimulate your prostate. This will help to enhance the pleasure you feel from this experience, and you’ll love the body-shaking orgasm it gives you. The harness you use will make a difference, so don’t be afraid to try different styles. You might also want to consider a strap on with a rounded base. These get better contact with the clit, making your partner feel good too.
You’ll want to keep plenty of lube to hand too. A little lube goes a long way, but you might find that you need to reapply as the fun goes on. Don’t be afraid to stop the fun if you need to add a little more. After all, it is supposed to be fun!
Would you try it?
Pegging is one of those sex acts that can really divide people. There is this automatic assumption that anal sex hurts, and that enjoying being pegged means that you want a real cock up your ass. That isn’t necessarily the case. It can just be something fun for you and your partner to try!
Have you ever tried it? Perhaps you have some excellent advice you’d like to share? Leave a comment in the box below.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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