I’m an adventurous person, but I’ll admit that the first time one of my fuck buddies asked if I’d like to try pegging with him, I was sceptical. My knowledge of it was limited all of those years ago, and I had my own ideas about it. Now I’m far more educated on the subject and I’ve got some experiences I’d like to share with you.
The main problem I had with pegging in the beginning was the positions. Or rather, the position. It was doggy style and that was it. So myself and my fuck buddy dedicated some time to finding the best pegging positions. Here’s my top five.
1. Lazy doggy style
For those who have already tried pegging, the chances are that you’ve been in a very specific position. Doggy style is great for rear entry, but it can feel boring after a while. It lacks imagination, and so we might be tempted to seek something a little different.
If you want to try something new without leaping out of your comfort zone, you could try the lazy doggy style position. It is similar to standard doggy style, except the receiver will lie on their front. The giver will then give them what they really want.
It might not seem that different, but it can totally change how it feels. My fuck buddy loved this position. He often told me that it felt more intense. His legs being together as I fucked him with the strap-on also meant that his ass felt more filled as a result. It was a great twist on the traditional position and proved to be a lot of fun for both of us!
2. The spread eagle
My fuck buddy is someone who gets a real rush out of being vulnerable. It is why he likes to submit to me on occasion, and why he loves doing risky things in public. Finding a position that appealed to this side of him was important to me, and thankfully I managed to find one.
This position isn’t too out there. In fact, the chances are that you’ve done it before, but with the roles reversed. The receiving partner will lie on their back and spread their legs. They can even pull their legs back with their hands if they want. It’s a vulnerable position, but also a hot one.
The giver can then slip into the perfect spot. For some, pegging makes them rock hard. For others, they go soft. That’s totally fine, but being in this position gives your partner the chance to see which way you go. They also get to watch your face with every thrust, which is a huge turn on!
3. Lap dance
Sometimes, it is the receiver who likes to be in control. Trying to figure out the right position can be tough. Many pegging positions focus on the one with the strap-on being in charge, but this isn’t always what you want. This position can help.
Known as the lap dance, this position works exactly as you might think it would. The giver sits on a chair. The receiver then straddles them and lowers themselves down onto the awaiting cock. It gives the receiver full control over the speed and also the depth of each thrust. They can even adjust the angle if they so wish.
It’s great to make sex hotter too. You can slowly strip tease for your partner, making them sit down and watch you sway in front of them to the beat. Then you can straddle them and sink onto their cock. It’ll feel amazing and look great for your partner. As someone who has been the one sitting in the chair, I can tell you that it looks sexy as fuck.
4. Reverse cowboy
Pegging typically requires the person giving to put more effort in. They often choose the speed and depth, and sometimes that isn’t what they want. Sometimes I just want to lie back and watch my partner do what they want to do on my strap-on.
So why not try the reverse cowboy? Yes, this is the position you’re looking for. The giver simply lies back on the bed and allows their partner to turn their back to them. They will then sit down on your dick and go to town.
It gives you a great view of their ass, but it also allows you to relax. You get to simply admire what is happening. Sometimes, my fuck buddy and I will combine this with spanking. If he’s in the mood and I’m feeling feisty, I might smack his ass as he fucks my cock. It’s great fun!
5. Against the wall
Eager to kink things up? You’ve got some great options. Not all positions require a bed. In fact, a lot of them might not even require a bedroom. Take this next one for example. It is one of the best pegging positions for those eager to try something new because you can do it anywhere.
As you’ll see from the illustration, this one is intended for the shower. But you can do it anywhere. As long as you can stand up, you are good to go! Just make sure that you have plenty of lube to hand and perhaps something to brace yourself on.
No, grabbing hold of the shower isn’t a good idea. A door frame can work well, though! It is perfect for a quick pegging, and it feels incredibly sexy. You don’t need the bed to have an amazing time, so why not try this position the next time you want to experiment?
Your favourite pegging positions
Despite my initial uncertainty, pegging has become something I love doing with one of my fuck buddies. He trusts me enough to try it with me, and I’ve gotten to experience something totally different with him. It’s great, and it really turns me on to be in charge like this. People love pegging, and this act is definitely here to stay.
So now you know my favourite pegging positions. The question is, what are yours? You can share them with me in the comments below!
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