Let’s start by saying that there is nothing wrong with vanilla sex. It can be a lot of fun, but sometimes it just isn’t enough. We want something more, something exciting, and when we want something in bed we will do our best to get it.
It could be that you’ve found yourself getting a little bit bored in bed of the same vanilla sex and the same sex positions that you do, and if that is the case you want something fresh to try. Here on the Escort Ireland blog we have a few suggestions for the randy among you wanting to try something a little bit different and a little bit kinky.
Bondage
There is something really sexy about giving up all control to someone else and letting them do whatever it is that they want to do to you. It can leave you feeling a little uncertain if you have never tried it before, but it can be a lot of fun once you let yourself go and just go with it.
One of the big things that can really help is setting up a safe word. That way, you feel safe if you have any doubts about what is going on and you get the chance to stop the action and talk about what is and isn’t working for you. That may be all you need to really settle your mind and allow you to relax so that you can just enjoy what is happening.
Now that we’ve done the bit about safety, what exactly can you do with bondage in the bedroom to turn vanilla sex into something really passionate and hot? Well, if you have some nice soft rope, you can either restrain your partner or be restrained by them. If you want something that will be that little bit fun and not too far out of your comfort one, get your partner to tie you and restrain you to a chair while they give you a sexy lap dance. It will force you to simply watch what they are doing, as you won’t be able to touch them, making it a very teasing thing to do. You might even start begging them to let you go and they will just keep on dancing to see how long they can keep you there.
If you’d rather be in control, tie your partner to the bed and pleasure them. Kiss their body gently all over, perhaps even teasing them with your tongue as you work your way along. It will drive them wild and they might try to move to get you touching them where you want. Try to resist as it will be much more fun having them completely at your disposal.
Mirror, mirror, on the wall
A standard thing that you will find in almost every bedroom is a mirror. Usually a mirror is used for just putting on makeup or seeing how that sexy outfit looks on, but it can turn normal sex into something much kinkier and fun.
Those with a mirror pointing at the bed will find looking in it while they have sex is great fun. Get yourself into doggy style position and have your partner facing the mirror. That way you can watch her sexy ass as you fuck her from behind and look up to see her face as she orgasms on your cock.
If you have a standing mirror, position yourself in front of it with your dick out and get your partner to give you a blowjob. If you stand side-on to it, you can watch her sucking hard on your cock and the way her mouth moves in a completely different way. It makes it even hotter when she spots herself in the mirror and starts really going for it, as you get an even better blowjob that will look like something fresh out of a porno!
Those lucky enough to have a mirror fixed onto the wall might want to use it to create a great contrast in heat. Mirrors tend to be quite cold to touch, and when you have been passionately fucking for a while it can be a nice bit of extra stimulation. Press them against the mirror with the coolness of the surface against her nipples. It will drive her really wild.
Public sex
Okay, so sex in public is incredibly risky. For a start, you might find yourselves being discovered and scarring some poor innocent bystander for life at the sight of people doing things in public that they definitely should not be doing. Also, you could also be in trouble with the police which is definitely not how you want your hot and steamy public sex sessions to go.
However, sex in public is one of the hottest and kinkiest things that you can do, especially if you don’t want to be tied up and whipped at all. You can get your thrills in this way simply by going out into the garden and having sex there. On those rare sunny days in Ireland, get yourself out with a nice cool drink and fuck in the backyard. If you have high walls and fences it will be even better, as you get that little bit of privacy. The only thing you’ll need to be cautious of is the noise!
Those wanting to risk it that little bit more might enjoy sex on the beach. Go at night so that you won’t have tons of people around and watch for where the sand gets. Afterwards you can cool off in the shower together and have some more fun in there!
Are you a kinky person in the bedroom, or do you keep things pretty vanilla? What is your favourite thing to do in the bedroom? Let us know in the comments below or visit the Escort Ireland forum and join in the discussions there.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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