A Guide To Seeing an Escort For The First Time

Meeting an escort for the first time is an exciting experience. You have likely for weeks, even months, as to whether you should pick up the phone. That isn’t really surprising as we have been taught that paying for sex is what ‘losers’ do.

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However, that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a stressful experience for many. When do you call?, what do you say?, how do you act when you get there? It is hardly a natural dating experience so these are all valid questions.

Therefore today we are going to bring you a guide to booking an escort for the first time. It will be full of helpful hints and tips to make it go smoothly for both you and your companion.

So here we go!

1) Choosing Your Escort

The first thing you do is go to the front page of our website and take a look at the escorts we have. They are split into various sections; female, male, TV, TS, duo (two women) and couples (man and woman). So no matter what kind of person you are looking for there will be a group for you.

You can also take a look at your local area as each town and city is put into its own section making navigation easy. There is no point in wanting to see an escort in London if you are living in Manchester.

When you go on the escort’s profile you will see what services they offer. It is important you look at this as if you go to an appointment and ask for a service (like anal sex) which they don’t offer, then you will come across as a jerk. Also find out what times they work and see if that suits you

Once you have chosen an escort in your area who performs services you want then just make a phone call. Be respectful and ask if there is a booking for a certain time. They will either go yes, or they will try and make an alternative time which is as near as they can get to your request. Hopefully it works out for you.

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2) Meeting The Escort

You will be asked to make a phone call when you are near the area at a certain time before the scheduled booking. Don’t shout too loudly and make it obvious what you are doing. Be subtle.

If that goers smoothly then you will be given the actual address and you can then go and meet them. Greet them and offer them the cash once you get in the place. They will accept it and count it. You are then set for the actual encounter.

There is no reason to engage in conversation that is too personal. They may well worry you are a journalist so just ask how their days has been and other pleasant but unobtrusive questions.

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3) Enjoying The Encounter

You will be asked to wear a condom and the escort will supply them. Never ask for sex without one or you will find yourself on a blacklist.

When it comes to the service you want, always ask, don’t presume and just go for it. The escort can withdraw the offer of the service for any or no reason. It is their body, they get the final say.

Once you have had a great time get dressed and thank them for their time. Then leave quickly and don’t look like you have been doing something dodgy. Even experienced clients sometimes try and look like a spy but instead look obvious as hell. Just walk out normally like you have been to a friend’s house.

When you get home have a look at the escort’s profile and see if they accept reviews. If they do make an account and tell the world what a great time you had. This will help their business going forward. What better way is there to thank them for their company?

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Well we hope that helped. Doing anything for the first time can be scary, but it is well worth doing. Good luck as you start your journey.

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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