Giving the Perfect Blowjob

As a woman with many lovers in the past, there was always some kind of satisfaction when it came to giving my men a one-to-one…down below…with my mouth. If I have had to guess for a couple of reasons, it may be the way that he smirks when he observes me unbuttoning his jeans, the way that his breathing becomes slow and hard, and the way that he quivers when he submits his member to my tongue.

Woman on top of man in bed
Middle-aged smiling couple kissing and playing on white sheet in bed at home

But the key matter is not what you give to him, it is how you give it to him. A man would be left unsatisfied if he feels like he’s stuck waiting in traffic to get out of a wet tunnel. But you can change that if you decide to be clever with the whole region of your orifice that will leave him smiling for days on end.

So ladies, let me present and entertain you with an insight on how to give the perfect blowjob. Gentlemen, the same can apply to you too.

Let me set a scenario where the opportune moment for a fellatio would occur. Your lover has invited you to come over to his place to watch a film or have a couple of glasses of wine – alcohol is optional of course.

A Night on the Sofa

You place yourself on his sofa, it’s comfortable, cushy enough to rest your back on and sink your head underneath the cushions. He puts a film on, something not so engaging, quite banal actually…like a modern drama.

You can feel his hand brush past your hair and softly rest on your shoulder, the physical connection sparks a reflex for you to slide closer to him to make your legs touch each others. He stares at you, and you stare back. Right before he caresses your cheek and gives you a kiss with his velvet lips.

You begin to rub your hands on his chest and slowly push him down where he begins to sink into the cushions. After having a little foreplay with each others tongues, that’s when the moment begins to give his shaft some attention.

Slide your face and your hands down his body from his shoulders, chest and torso and stop when you’ve reached his crotch. Remember, the anticipation is key. When you begin to act slower than before and tease him a little in the process, it will get his dick bulging out from the inside his jeans. While you start to unzip his trousers and gently pull down his boxer, you will then get to see it. Standing tall and mighty is his huge cock, eager to play with you.

There’s no need to rush into any hardcore gagging…just yet. Simply begin by kissing the head mildly and working your way down, lick your lips before then to give him that moisturising stimulation. Suck on his skin a little with every kiss you give, and when you can feel his bulging manhood pulsating against your lips, thats when you let his head dip into the inside of mouth.

Up and Down

Close your orifice around him, and use your tongue while move your head up and down to stroke the shaft of his cock. Don’t forget to suck, think about when a man masturbates he tugs on his foreskin while rubbing to stimulate himself, same when a woman touches herself too.

Now for me, I like to throw in a little surprise every now and then, to keep him alert and make him gasp like the air quickly dissipated from his lungs. For example, when you slide yourself back down on him, go all the way down till your mouth is filled with his whole length.

If you can, suck as if it’s a strawberry flavoured lollipop you’ve been dying to have recently, and slip your tongue out to tingle with his balls too – that would come as a very nice surprise to him.

If you want to heighten his senses, come out of your deep throat position with saliva dripping onto his hot muscle, and then use the tip of your tongue to flick all the way from the top to the bottom of his head. Trust me when I say that you will see him biting his lips and curling his toes to control the animal inside him. Remember to keep him warm and wet, you’ll need that factor to take you to the climax.

Another useful tip would be to keep your hair out of your face, this isn’t just so you won’t get any strands caught in between your teeth but because guys love it when you watch them. I’m not particularly sure why this is the case but it gives the man the opportunity to just latch his hand onto the back of your head and grab your hair as his bulge gets bigger in your mouth.

The moment is on it’s way to the end, and you can hear his moaning getting heavier and louder, that’s when you start to speed the process up. Suck harder and move your lips faster along his cock trembling inside your oral hole. If he liked your tongue tickling his balls before, use a hand to massage them while you continue to blow. Go all the way down and up to the top just before his purple head is exposed.

The Point of No Return

From this point on, you don’t stop. You don’t pause, you don’t slow down, you just keep going as you begin to hear his voice about to break. The common whisper of ‘I’m cumming.’ or ‘I’m about to cum.’ is the big sign that only about seconds away that he’s going to explode.

Peak to your maximum mouth movement and then you have two choices: endure his massive load inside your mouth as he pants and groan like the heavens have opened up for him, or slide your mouth out and replace the motion with your hands as he sprays all over your face and chest that makes his experience end with a sigh of satisfaction.

Or…take a mean approach and actually stop right before he cums, give him a little moment to cool down before you insert his shaft inside another wet hole of yours…some rules are made to be broken.

So there you have it ladies and gentlemen, this has been my guide on how to give the perfect blowjob. It can apply to any couple who wants to improve on one’s technique or for anyone who wants to get their crush to send you a message on your phone saying ‘When are you free next time?’

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Zoe Jaspers has worked in the adult industry for over a year, but she has already gained a fantastic reputation in the field. As a writer, she is passionate about bringing the reader some of the most interesting blog content around.

She is possibly most famous for her erotic stories, but is equally adept at giving top quality sex advice, all the time bringing in her 'personal experiences'.

When she isn't sharing her most intimate encounters, Zoe keeps herself active by watching videos on Youtube, and listening to music.
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