Anal sex can be a lot of fun. There is something rather naughty about the practice, and it is certainly a thing which many people love. However, it is fair to say that it is something that can go wrong. To be blunt, the anus is smaller than the vagina and that can cause trouble fitting. That can create pain and a really unpleasant experience.
This is why we are going to bring you five simple tips to have good anal sex. We hope it is useful for punters, escorts, or anyone else who fancies trying it out, or improving their skills.
So here goes.
1) Communication is the Key
It is vital that people talk during anal sex. Unlike vaginal sex, the penis doesn’t just slip in. Therefore both people need to work out if what they are doing is comfortable, and whether they need to slow down or start doing anything else differently.
2) Use Lube
The anus is not self lubricating so needs some help. That is why you should be liberal with then use of lube on the penis and in the anus. This will help things slip in a bit easier.
Also, don’t be worried about reapplying when things get a bit dry. What can start as comfortable can get uncomfortable after a few minutes, so as we see in point one, keep the communication lines up.
3) Go Slower Than Usual
During anal sex, there is more chance that damage can be done, so therefore you need to go slower than you would with vaginal sex. That doesn’t mean going in slow-motion, but just at a more comfortable pace.
4) Use Toys
Things going into the anus isn’t a natural feeling, so maybe begin by using butt plugs and other sex toys. Then, when the woman feels ready, the guy can slowly inert his penis into her. This will make her more comfortable, which obviously makes it a better experience.
5) Use Condoms
Many people don’t see condoms as a must when it comes to anal sex. Lets face it, you can’t get pregnant from there. However, there are still risks. The anus is where poo comes from so you can still get infections from there.
Also, there are additional risks when you move from the anus to the vagina, as what is left on the penis from anal (poo) can get transferred into the vagina. Therefore you need to use a condom for the anus, and then change to a different condom for the vagina. This will be of huge benefit when it comes to sexual health.
So there we go. Anal can be fun, but it must be done right. By following these five simple tips, then you can increase your chances of having a fun time.
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