We have all been with a girl at some point in our lives, where we have suffered what we call ‘premature ejaculation’. That unavoidable moment where your body takes over and you just explode without warning, at a point far too early for our own liking.
This can be an embarrassing moment. You feel the eyes of the woman burning into your soul, and for you, the whole experience is likely to be ruined. You may even feel it causes problems outside the bedroom. The question is, how do you ‘fix’ it? Here at Escort Ireland, we have put together a guide for those who believe that they are suffering from premature ejaculation. We hope that it helps you hit those heights.
Is There Really a Problem?
Firstly you need to work out whether there is a problem. Most guys have an unrealistic view of how long they should last. The idea they should be going for an hour without cuming, is a myth perpetuated by porn. Lets get something straight; a far higher proportion of people come within two to five minutes, than can even dream of lasting an hour. Another point to mention is the fact if a man does go for an hour, the more it is likely to get uncomfortable for the woman (and the man).
Porn is not real. In much the same way that if your wife walks in on you getting a BJ off her sister, she is more likely to smash you over the head with a frying pan than actually join in. Men are not stallions who will go on forever. That does not mean however, that guys can’t do something to go a bit longer.
Ways to Last a bit Longer
Firstly, the more you have sex with someone, the more you will likely be able to control yourself. When you first get with a lady, you are extra excited, and that can lead to you having an orgasm quicker than you like. As you become used to the other persons body, the more you can relax into the situation more. So the moral of the story is, have more sex!
Think condoms. You can get brands that are extra thick, and have ways of reducing sensitivity. If you are less sensitive, then you won’t come as quickly. It is pretty basic. It can however, reduce the enjoyment of the sex for the guy wearing the condom. It is up to the individual if it is worth it.
It may sound obvious, but when you enter the woman, try not to go so quick. Make longer, slower motions, and also stop at the top of the stroke. This will give you a rhythm where you can go for longer. Remember, if you have sex like a rabbit, you are likely to come as quick as one.
Getting into a position where you can control your strokes is important. Maybe try going on top, or from behind. However, what is more important is making sure the woman knows you are trying to control yourself. There is no point you watching your pace and strokes, whilst she is grinding away like a mad woman. It is pretty obvious what will happen.
In the end, not cuming quicker than you would like is about getting to know your own body. If you are getting towards the point of no return, stop for a bit. Let your body calm down, then you can go again. This will take a bit of self control, but it can be done, and is an effective method of stopping premature ejaculation.
Galway Escorts Can Help
The Galway escorts are always there to help you learn control. It doesn’t matter if you are a regular escort visitor, or just wanting to take a few tricks home to the woman in your life. The escorts in Galway are experts in the art of love, and will be able to help you improve your performance still further.
Just remember that, even if you do cum quicker than you would like, the woman is likely to be a lot less annoyed than you would think. The uncomfortable atmosphere is probably created by you having a face like a slapped backside.
After all, if the foreplay is good, the woman is likely to have cum already by the time you have had your orgasm.
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