Five Tips for the Perfect Threesome

The threesome has always been one of man’s top fantasies. The whole idea of double the tongues, boobs and vagina’s has fascinated him for thousands of years. Yet it is a fantasy, that for most, never really becomes reality. And for those that are lucky enough to get an opportunity to take part in one, when it happens, it sometimes becomes a bit of a let down. This can be for many reasons. So here at Escort-Ireland we have put together a quick five step guide on how to have a good threesome. If you follow these rules, you should have a better opportunity than most of making your ultimate fantasy something you will remember for only positive reasons. We hope you find it useful!

1) Make sure all people want it, and feel a connection

This may well be your fantasy, but you have to remember, this isn’t just about you. There are two other people, who may well have their own insecurities regarding the encounter. If you get into the bedroom and it becomes apparent you are the only one who wants to be there, then you are in for a very uncomfortable time.

Try and go out for a drink first, and work your way up to your threesome. Make sure everyone is comfortable and has ample chance to back out. No-one needs to be taking one ‘for the team’. This is a sexual encounter that has to be mutually beneficial

2) Set the Ground Rules up Front

This sounds rather formal, but is one of the keys to a good threesome. Not every threesome is like a porno film, especially if your girlfriend is part of the group. There may be things she doesn’t want you to do to the other lady, like kissing or oral sex, and there may be things the other one doesn’t want done to her.

Make sure everyone knows what is allowed before they step into the bedroom. It’s as simple as that.

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3) Make sure all people are included

This may sound obvious, but this is one of the problems people find with threesomes. They are used to dealing with one person at a time in bed. Those tricks you use, are suitable for two people, but can lead to a third feeling rather left out. Use positions where you are all active.

Also, you are likely to have brought a third person into the bedroom with you and your girlfriend. Remember, this isn’t just an excuse to have sex with someone else. It is a THREESOME! Remember not to get too excited with the person who has joined, at the expense of your current partner.

4) Don’t Force the Women to do Anything to Each Other

As I said earlier, this isn’t a porno film. Most women are not naturally going to start working on each other with glee. It is usually going to be a gradual thing, if it happens at all. The whole mood will be ruined if you start making demands that they start engaging in sexual activity. Let it flow naturally, and if they just want to concentrate on working on you, then that is just fine!

5) Talk About it Afterwards

One of the biggest mistakes people make after a threesome, is not talking about it. That means that any of the three participants could be left thinking that something is wrong. Remember to keep communicating and let everyone know how much fun you had. Even if it wasn’t what you expected, thank them for helping you share this life experience.

It must seem as normal after the event, as it was before.

We hope you found that helpful, but that leads to one major question. How do I get myself a threesome in the first place?

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Duo’s in Dublin

You have to admit, it would be very lucky to find a partner who is willing to have a threesome. And if you are not that lucky, we have plenty of escort duo’s here at Escort Ireland. For example, check out the escort duos in Dublin. Some of these escorts are available for 120 Euros for 30 minutes, but you will certainly need longer than that to enjoy their company fully!

So whether it is at home, or with a couple of escorts from Escort-Ireland, just follow our guide and you could have one of those incredible experiences that you remember forever.

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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