A Guide to Giving a Woman an Orgasm

All men obviously want to give a woman an orgasm. Yet sadly, most guys don’t really know how to how to give a woman the ultimate pleasure. Seriously, most men play with the womans boobs and vagina for a bit, get straight into action, finish, and then wonder why the woman hasn’t come.

Therein lies a real opportunity for all you guys out there. If you can master the art of giving a woman an orgasm, then you are destined to have them coming back for more and more. And remember, women talk. How good you are will get around and you will find yourself getting new offers all the time.

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This is why your friends here at Escort Ireland have put together a four point guide to making a woman come. We are sure you will find it very useful indeed, as will the ladies in your life.

1) Communication

One big mistake guys make is treating all women the same. What they do for one, they do for the other and expect the same results. They fail to realise that all women are different, both emotionally and physically.

You need to communicate well with your lady. Obviously do it in a ‘sexy manner’, we are not talking about getting her to write out a checklist. But find out how she likes your strength and speed. Do what is best for her.

This is a sure way to improve your chances of giving her better and more frequent orgasms.

) Give Before You Receive

Women love to feel the centre of attention during sex. So guess what? Leaning back and expecting your blowjob is going to make them feel like something of a sex object and is going to make it more difficult for them to come.

Make sure your lady has her fun first. She will feel feel the centre of your world and this will make her come much more easily.

And remember, once she is done, they are likely to repay the compliment in equal measure; maybe even more so!

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3) Relax Her

As some of us know, and the rest of you are working out reading this, getting a woman to orgasm is a mental, as well as a physical challenge. If she has worries about work, or her looks, she will not be in the ‘zone’ to come.

Let her know how attractive she is and how she is the most important thing in the world. Once she is mentally right, you can move onto the physical side.

4) Escalation

Another big mistake guys make is rushing. For guys, we can come to an orgasm very quickly. Men basically need to get aroused, stimulated, and bingo, we are there.
Women, on the other hand, need a gradual escalation to come to a point of orgasm.

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Think of it as stages, gradually raising the temperature over a period of time. Don’t go for the clitoris and start strumming away. Move your finger or tongue around the vagina before going for the sweet spot. Listen to her body and react accordingly. She is definitely more likely to have a mind-blowing orgasm.

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There is no foolproof way of getting a woman to come. Still, if you follow this easy guide, you will certainly improve your chances of getting her bucking her hips and screaming your name.

If you need any further sex tips, feel free to book a meeting with one of the Dublin escorts. They know a lot about many different subjects, including the art of love, and would be happy to share what they have learned.

We wish you luck!

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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