There comes a point in all our lives that sex with our partner becomes stagnant. It is only natural that it happens. When once the prospect of having sex for the first time with someone was really exciting, after a while it will become more mundane, especially if you have the same kind of positions and style of encounters.
Many people will come to our site looking for ways to break the monotony. True they can learn about BDSM and threesomes, but often they are just looking for simple tips to make things exciting, rather than trying to convince their partner to be tied up.
This is why today we are going to bring you five simple sex tips that can get things going tonight. None are going to take hours of research, or weeks of convincing your partner it is actually a good idea.
So here goes.
1) Porn
Porn is everywhere. No longer do you have to go to get dirty mags from the corner shop, and walk home crushed with embarrassment. Now you can just go to Pornhub and get yourself both excited. You can even try out the positions they do.
Whatever genre you both decide to look at, this is a great way to make things exciting again.
2) Sex Toys
There are few better ways to spice things up than by getting sex toys into the bedroom. They can be used as a masturbation tool, or as a sex aid to stimulate the woman whilst she is being penetrated.
You can add this as a surprise for your partner due to the fact they are such fun. This will add in to the excitement.
3) Do it in a Different Room
Yes we know the bedroom if for sleeping in and having sex, but what if you took your bedroom antics elsewhere? You can use the shower, the kitchen, or the living room. True this is going to be difficult if you have kids, unless you are indifferent to them being mentally scarred, and/or ending up in care, but for those who have the house to themselves, you are on to a winner.
4) Massage
This is one that really gets my Mrs going. A massage will be a different to the usual foreplay. It gives you a chance to get the baby oil out, and explore your partner’s erogenous zones. You can then even move to more intimate areas after everyone is totally relaxed.
There is a reason most escorts start the session with a massage, and that is because they are fantastic.
5) Talk About Fantasies
We always say communication is the key when it comes to sex. This extends to talking about what you really want to do. Whether the partner likes the ideas or not (and you will have an idea on their reaction before you even say anything) the fact you are talking about naughty things will get you both horny anyway.
So there we have it. There is no need to swing from chandeliers to get things going in your sex life again. Follow any of these simple tips and you will both surely have a smile put back on your faces.
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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