All over the internet there are blogs that point out to men what they do wrong in bed. The more you read them, the more you would think that every guy around is a total incompetent in the sack. Well, some may be, and you girls out there probably have some bad stories, but in this time of equality, we feel it is only fair that we point out the mistakes women make in bed. This is why we have put together the ‘Escort Ireland seven deadly sex sins for women’ guide.
Do you make any of these mistakes? Time to find out
The Porno Scream
This is a bad one. We have all seen the films where the woman screams the place down like she is in the middle of child birth. A word to the wise, when guys watch porn they know it is fake, and if you do it, then he will know you are faking it too.
Make normal, natural noises. This can’t be stressed enough
Faking An Orgasm
This is a major turn off for most guys.Unless the man is a serious dud in bed, then he will have made a woman orgasm before, and will know what it looks and feels like. If you fake an orgasm and he spots it, then it will give a real knock to his confidence, as he knows it will probably mean you want him to finish quickly.
Coming and then Finishing
This is a major fault for women. Maybe it is because they are not used to guys making them come first, but a great number just stop dead, like it is a case of ‘job done’. Remember, the guy has to finish too, so let him know you want him to carry on. Remember, sex is a two way street!
Squeezing Balls
The guys balls are extremely sensitive, and will give him a great deal of pleasure if you stroke or tickle them. However, if you squeeze too hard then it will feel like they are in a vice. Be careful!
Always Making the Guy Instigate It
You may enjoy sex when you get around to doing it, but for a guy there is nothing worse than making him the one who always has to make the first move. When that happens, he usually thinks that you are only doing it because you re supposed to do it.
Mix it up a little, maybe by pushing him against a wall, or grabbing him in public. You could also leave the bedroom, and come back in naked. Anything like this will make him realise that you want sex too.
Continually Turning out the Lights
We all know that women often have body image issues, and it is understandable that they may want the lights off. However, it needs to be remembered that men are very visual when it comes to sex, so doing it in the dark is likely to be something of a turn off. Remember, if he didn’t find you attractive, then he wouldn’t be there.
A good tip is to use a lamp, or turn the lights down lower. Then you can feel comfortable in a less sharp light, whilst he can see the woman he is having sex with, stimulating all his senses.
Reverting to the Same Position
Now everybody knows that people have their favourite sexual position, and for women this may be more important as they are not guaranteed to orgasm every time. This however, can lead to some women becoming a bit selfish in the bedroom and going straight away for the position THEY like.
Remember to mix it up a bit, ask the guy what he wants. He will definitely be grateful!
The key to perfect sex is good communication, but we all know that telling someone they are doing something wrong is hard. The best way to go about it is to always be positive, never say “Don’t do that”, always try “I like it when you do this.”
So there are the seven deadly sex sins for women courtesy of Escort Ireland. We hope we have given a few of you out there a few tips which can improve your sex life still further.
And those of you out there who found this blog useless because you never make any of these mistakes….can I have your phone number????
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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At least their sin was doing something wrong in bed…
Unfortunately, I get ‘wrath’ before I get to small talk.
I’m hoping the missus reaches ‘gluttony’ when I pull my todger out 😀