If you are not much of a virginal vacuum and are a bit hesitant when it comes to giving oral sex due to preconceived notions you may have – listen up! It’s time to give our readers more of an in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing results that guys (and girls) can achieve by using their tongues.
There are men out there who stand their ground and refuse to give their partner oral sex. If you are one of these men then – get over yourself! Your woman wants to receive oral sex just as much as you want to receive a good blowjob before getting your end away! And if your woman is prepared to show her appreciation for your existence, you should at least try to return yours.
Unfortunately, some of us women may take a bit more time and effort than others and need more caressing. But wouldn’t you enjoy the fact that YOU are the one who rocks her ever-loving world enough never to want anyone else?
Studies show that over 70% of men and women prefer oral sex to intercourse and that around 80% of women find it easier to reach orgasm by oral, while only 25% can through intercourse. The clitoris is equivalent to the tip of the head of a man’s penis – packed with nerve endings and sensitive to touch.
This guide will give you all the information and techniques you will need when it comes to “eating out”!
Preparation
is very important when it comes to giving oral sex. Don’t just dive straight in, it’s not a race and most definitely should not be rushed. You will need to heat things up a bit and get her started first.
Warm her up by kissing her in places that turn her on. Gentle breathing on the back of her neck, slowly kissing and making your way round to her front, working down towards her breasts is a good way to get her nice and juicy. Moisten her nipples and tickle them with the tip of your tongue until they are fully erect. Tug at the ends a little with your teeth; test your strength with her. Repeat this with the other. It’s unfair to give all the attention to one but not the other.
Continue breathing slowly and sensually with kisses down towards her groin, this will help build up her anticipation. Tease her by caressing her inner thighs with your gentle kisses and light breathing, whilst moving your way closer to her warm honey pot.
Kiss her lips and lick around them before getting stuck in. Only when she is panting and trembling with desire should you start on her clitoris.
Relax your tongue, a stiff, plank tongue is not the way to go, but a soft, flat tongue will make her weak and beg for more. Use small, slow and steady rhythmic licks. Think of how one would lick an ice cream – you get the drift.
Detect Her Hot Spot
A clue might be when she starts making more noise when licking in a certain area, stick to that area using the same motion. Feel her body language, if she starts to move or moan louder, you are on the right track!
Noises of enjoyment are often a turn on to her too. Pleasurable noises that sound like you are enjoying turning her on will make her gush. Humming can cause beneficial vibrations on her slippery clitoris, which will please her even more, but, try not to make any ugly slurping sounds, like you’re sucking up spaghetti at Prezzo’s!
For example, you could tell her you love how she tastes and ask if she is enjoying it.
Be patient and relax yourself in a comfortable position. Most pornos demonstrate woman reaching an orgasm within a few minutes, but the reality is some take five, ten or even longer. Remember that your woman will always be more relaxed and satisfied if she knows you are enjoying it, so your noises will reassure her.
When she starts to arch her back and moan and groan you will naturally start to feel great about yourself anyway. The fact that you are stimulating her with your tongue should also leave you with a solid something in your underpants!
Slide in a finger or two, or three! Depending on what is most comfortable for her. But this must be also be done in a steady motion whilst controlling the tickling rhythm on her clitoris. Insert one or two fingers inside her, palm facing up making a “come here” motion. This will blow her mind.
Don’t Change Technique
Try not to change your technique, it will distract her and take her arousal back to the starting block! You don’t want to end up back at the starting point when you’re about to reach the finish line, do you?
The movement of your fingers sliding in and out of her will rub on her G Spot, which is located inside and on the front wall of the vagina. Whilst tapping her clit with your tongue and even giving the occasional suck on her clitoris will bring her to climax. Only when you start to feel her clitoris harden, the obvious noises and her body shake is when you know the big O is almost here.
Remember be patient, she may hold this position and reaction for a short time before exploding in your mouth. So, stick to the pace and continue with your noises of passion. She should by this point be clawing the bed sheets.
Another great way to bring her to orgasm is to allow her to straddle on your face and let her take the driver’s seat! Concentrate on swiping motions with your tongue on either side of her clitoris, occasionally swiping your tongue beneath her clitoral hood; this will drive her crazy from the intensity.
Remember the key to give an orgasm is achieved through physical and mental stimulation and is not always gained by penetrative sex.
Following these easy steps will ensure to give her an orgasm to remember and with the great success, you may find this will become a regular hobbie!
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Imagine the previous client’s saliva still there
Women will definitely lead to orgasm, if followed the way mentioned in the article. I must say if anybody looks to give his partner extreme pleasure through oral sex…..Must read it!