Who's the hunter? The punter or the advertiser?

[TommyH123]

No one who’s ever been with me has felt this.

I don’t doubt that for a second ��

[TommyH123]

I get where you're coming from with the hunting anology and I do like it because it's the complete opposite of the "victim" stereotype but hunting kinda refers to tricking and trapping, I dont trap my clients, I like to to think I "attract" them, and I do respect them as I'm grateful that they've chosen me to spend their hard earned cash on.

So I'll stick with being a busisnesswoman rather than a hunter, I dont think clients are hunters either as someone said it's a mutually beneficial transaction.

Ut again Dieve, great topic for discussion

Love your outlook, you know the saying about never forgetting how someone makes you feel, that’s what it’s all about

[AmyTantraMassage]

It seems like you misunderstood my question, Amy and took the "hunting" too literally. Looking for a romantic/sexual partner is what's generally referred to as hunting, traditionally from the men's viewpoint, as they are the ones who are expected to convince womxn to go out with them, whereas here it's up to us to convince them to choose us out of hundreds of other professionals. I wanted to know how much approach is acceptable in this subculture from the womxn's side. I was always ridiculed for bringing flowers to guys, I guess it was a precursor of my slutblood taking a step that they're supposed to. Here it's kind of a mix because we dominantly advertise, but we still get flowers (from a rare breed of punters). I would still confidently call a first session a trap, because it's a pig in a poke with an escort who you've never been with, even a winner can fail you if something doesn't click, but that's totally normal. One escort's trash is another escort's treasure

It's called chasing not hunting. Hunting has a violent connotation to it and implies a victor and a victim.

[Buswanka69120]

The term hunt seems to be a debated choice of word so ill avoid it. This is how i view it, the first appointment ive hand picked YOU from dozens of beautiful ladies somewhat revealing my hand to a certain extent...its up to you to keep me coming back and up to me to make sure youll accept my company again at a bare minimum. I do like the odd random message or PM from a lady, subtle act of enticement in theory but if the execution is off it can go against you. If it comes across as genuine like you were thinking of me and would rather spend the time with me over most, im all over it...if it comes across as your having a bad week nd need some clients im not so keen

[JennyIrish]

One escort's trash is another escort's treasure

Never a truer word spoken. I have some amazing clients whom other escorts turned down for various reasons. Their loss, my gain but it works visa versa too, I've probably done the same myself.

[mymann]

Hello.

I've been wondering about this because we can say the classic notion that men are the predators and womxn are the prey, but in the case of EI womxn are sort of like venus flytraps and men end up literally paying the price, so the role isn't so clear, don't you think? What if womxn are more active than that, like reaching out to potential customers? Does it diminish the men's hunting instinct because the mystery is gone, or is it hot to be approached, like smelling a nice barbecue from a distance, seeing the host waving at you whether you want to join?

Chime in.

I have been both and was always happy either way.

I persued beautiful ladies that i anticipated were interestin no matter how far away they were and i was never disappointed.

Always was good for ones ego to get a contact out of blue and always be guarenteed a good encounter.

[JennyIrish]

[QUOTE=Buswanka69120;3808463]The term hunt seems to be a debated choice of word so ill avoid it. This is how i view it, the first appointment ive hand picked YOU from dozens of beautiful ladies somewhat revealing my hand to a certain extent...its up to you to keep me coming back and up to me to make sure youll accept my company again at a bare minimum. /QUOTE]


This is exactly how I view my work. At this stage of my career I'm blessed to have a good base of regulars but as I said before with new clients im grateful that new clients have chosen ME over so many others. My posts here and my Twitter get me alot of busisness so that's my marketing end.

Also at this stage of my career I'm lucky enough to have a steady income so if I dont like a client or hes being disrespectful I can afford to just hand his money back and boot him out. It's only happened me twice in the last two years but yes it's all about mutual respect which is kind of the opposite of the hunting anology but again, bravo to Dieve for such a though provoking topic, and for a lady for whom English is a second language the debate was so well put!

[Barney Rubble]

Nice sneaky way to gauge the moral values of the baby escort on her first thread, Barney I think the best answer to your bacon smell question is the case of the "vegetarian" dog who gobbled up meat when she was offered a choice between meat and veg on live television to the horror of its "mother" who had pushed her agenda on the poor thing even though she wasn't even vegetarian herself. Follow your heart. All religions intend to be a daddy substitute with their gods, with all their upsides and downsides of dancing to someone else's tune. Take it responsibly, like alcohol. That way nobody would have to suffer for anyone else's views. Respect's gotta go both ways. My view is that god is inside us. It's the same fire that can fuel the huge ship we are to sail forward, or burn down cities. The choice is in our hand. Amen. Please don't have this thread locked too, folks

My apologies Dieve, I never intended putting you on the spot and my mind was all over the place last night.

It was just in your opening post you mentioned the smell of the barbeque and it got me thinking of the smell of bacon. If anything can make me salivate then this is it .

As for me, I'm getting way too old to be hunting. And who the feck would want to chase me !

[AmorInfinito8]

My apologies Dieve, I never intended putting you on the spot and my mind was all over the place last night.

It was just in your opening post you mentioned the smell of the barbeque and it got me thinking of the smell of bacon. If anything can make me salivate then this is it .

As for me, I'm getting way too old to be hunting. And who the feck would want to chase me !

Your only as old as the woman you feel!!



Chin up Barney!!
Were all a little Groucho at times

I think you should add to your signature!?

"fry me some bacon I'll stay until lunch"🤔

[Noregrets]

[QUOTE=JennyIrish;3808503]

The term hunt seems to be a debated choice of word so ill avoid it. This is how i view it, the first appointment ive hand picked YOU from dozens of beautiful ladies somewhat revealing my hand to a certain extent...its up to you to keep me coming back and up to me to make sure youll accept my company again at a bare minimum. /QUOTE]


This is exactly how I view my work. At this stage of my career I'm blessed to have a good base of regulars but as I said before with new clients im grateful that new clients have chosen ME over so many others. My posts here and my Twitter get me alot of busisness so that's my marketing end.

Also at this stage of my career I'm lucky enough to have a steady income so if I dont like a client or hes being disrespectful I can afford to just hand his money back and boot him out. It's only happened me twice in the last two years but yes it's all about mutual respect which is kind of the opposite of the hunting anology but again, bravo to Dieve for such a though provoking topic, and for a lady for whom English is a second language the debate was so well put!

I was actually going to mebtion her level of English also.

It's a massive failing of our education system that we do not leave school fluent in a 2nd language.

And regardless of an escorts financial position they should all boot out any client that is in any way disrespectful. Very important for their own mental health.