Who's the hunter? The punter or the advertiser?

[AmyTantraMassage]

Oooh I LOVE this Dieve, very thought provoking and dispels the notion that all of us involved in sex work are victims, puts an entirely different twist on it to think some of us are "hunters", brilliant!


I dont think I'd consider myself a hunter, maybe more like someone who works in marketing, I make efforts fo attract clientele on here and on my Twitter and like to provide a high quality service to ensure repeat custom.

So maybe not a hunter but a business woman!

But brilliant topic for discussion!

This. We’re more business and marketing rather than ‘hunters’. We all market ourselves to promote a certain clientele depending on services provided.

[Dieve]

I don't see it as hunting or hunted, but more like a mutually beneficial transaction. Escorts provide a bespoke service and men pay to enjoy their time. Everyone is a winner if everybody plays by the rules and is respectful.

There's no question about the mutually beneficial aspect of it. I was asking about the powerplay part, who finds what appealing regarding the nature of approach when it comes to first encounters, so a lil statistics please Obviously repeat meets are totally different, you already know what's what. First impressions are the foundation, and I have very mixed feelings because I don't fancy gender roles too much, but I still don't want to lose good clients who prefer leaning a bit toward the traditional pole, so I'm flexible to find some common ground.

[Dieve]

This. We’re more business and marketing rather than ‘hunters’. We all market ourselves to promote a certain clientele depending on services provided.

Lol, what you're describing to me with JennyIrish sounds pretty much like hunting to me, like the cobweb analogy of WeeJimmy but I respect your dislike of the title, so I'll retain it for myself

[AmyTantraMassage]

Lol, what you're describing to me with JennyIrish sounds pretty much like hunting to me, like the cobweb analogy of WeeJimmy but I respect your dislike of the title, so I'll retain it for myself

Not how I do it. When you hunt, you’re out for blood and take no prisoners. I don’t like cleaning blood out of my apartment. I’m a take me or leave it kinda girl. Either you wanna come if your own free will or you don’t. What we agree on on the phone is what you get. If you come to me and don’t like what you see or aren’t comfortable in any way, you can go. If you stay shorter than booked, you get a partial refund. In return, you don’t test any of my boundaries, because, like I said, I’m a take it as discussed or leave kinda girl. I like things how I like them. I provide a phenomenal service as long as you’re respectful and as long as you understand that the minute I ask you to leave, you leave.

I don’t try entice you to do more, I’m annoying in that service agreed upon on booking is all you get, because each massage has a different clean up time but all of my massages are epic so you still leave happy, sometimes just a little bit horny again, because, well, I like to prove with the right kinda look and touch, the engine can do 1 last push. But only sometimes. Depending on how impish I am at the time.

So I’m an apex predator but I’m picky and choosy on whom I pounce on. I don’t hunt. Cardio would make my tits sag.

[JennyIrish]

Lol, what you're describing to me with JennyIrish sounds pretty much like hunting to me, like the cobweb analogy of WeeJimmy but I respect your dislike of the title, so I'll retain it for myself

I get where you're coming from with the hunting anology and I do like it because it's the complete opposite of the "victim" stereotype but hunting kinda refers to tricking and trapping, I dont trap my clients, I like to to think I "attract" them, and I do respect them as I'm grateful that they've chosen me to spend their hard earned cash on.

So I'll stick with being a busisnesswoman rather than a hunter, I dont think clients are hunters either as someone said it's a mutually beneficial transaction.

Ut again Dieve, great topic for discussion

[AmyTantraMassage]

I get where you're coming from with the hunting anology and I do like it because it's the complete opposite of the "victim" stereotype but hunting kinda refers to tricking and trapping, I dont trap my clients, I like to to think I "attract" them, and I do respect them as I'm grateful that they've chosen me to spend their hard earned cash on.

So I'll stick with being a busisnesswoman rather than a hunter, I dont think clients are hunters either as someone said it's a mutually beneficial transaction.

Ut again Dieve, great topic for discussion

This!! You just get it. It’s why I always give someone an out when they one coz we do charge a lot. But we also deserve respect even if they’re paying a lot of money. It’s all about choosing. Because, at the end of the day, you never want someone to regret spending a day+ wages on you and have them feel like shite at the end of the day. And they also have to accept that they shouldn’t leave a girl feeling that way. It’s a mutual thing. As long as they understand I’m in charge lmao.

[Noregrets]

Hello.

I've been wondering about this because we can say the classic notion that men are the predators and womxn are the prey, but in the case of EI womxn are sort of like venus flytraps and men end up literally paying the price, so the role isn't so clear, don't you think? What if womxn are more active than that, like reaching out to potential customers? Does it diminish the men's hunting instinct because the mystery is gone, or is it hot to be approached, like smelling a nice barbecue from a distance, seeing the host waving at you whether you want to join?

Chime in.

Very simple

In real life these days the women.are rhe predators certainly teenagers and into their 20s and maybe even 30s.

If an escort pms me it will do my ego the world of good and I certainly will look at her profile and if I like it I will do my best to arrange an appointment.

Girls are business women and imo they should most definitely be proactive in chasing clients if they are not busy.

I think a genuine client will be more than happy with this.

Personally a certain retired lady reached out to me a few years ago. We ended having a fanastic meal and desert was amazing. To this day we are friends and have great respect for each other and I was delighted to get a text from her saying she has found true love, a fee days ago.
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[Dieve]

It seems like you misunderstood my question, Amy and took the "hunting" too literally. Looking for a romantic/sexual partner is what's generally referred to as hunting, traditionally from the men's viewpoint, as they are the ones who are expected to convince womxn to go out with them, whereas here it's up to us to convince them to choose us out of hundreds of other professionals. I wanted to know how much approach is acceptable in this subculture from the womxn's side. I was always ridiculed for bringing flowers to guys, I guess it was a precursor of my slutblood taking a step that they're supposed to. Here it's kind of a mix because we dominantly advertise, but we still get flowers (from a rare breed of punters). I would still confidently call a first session a trap, because it's a pig in a poke with an escort who you've never been with, even a winner can fail you if something doesn't click, but that's totally normal. One escort's trash is another escort's treasure

[Dieve]

Nice sneaky way to gauge the moral values of the baby escort on her first thread, Barney I think the best answer to your bacon smell question is the case of the "vegetarian" dog who gobbled up meat when she was offered a choice between meat and veg on live television to the horror of its "mother" who had pushed her agenda on the poor thing even though she wasn't even vegetarian herself. Follow your heart. All religions intend to be a daddy substitute with their gods, with all their upsides and downsides of dancing to someone else's tune. Take it responsibly, like alcohol. That way nobody would have to suffer for anyone else's views. Respect's gotta go both ways. My view is that god is inside us. It's the same fire that can fuel the huge ship we are to sail forward, or burn down cities. The choice is in our hand. Amen. Please don't have this thread locked too, folks

[beautyaddict]

First Dieve , excellent thread

Its a complicated quistion , some like to be approached/hunted some not so much

You see adverts focused on exclusivity, a few select clients , quality over quantity , or focused on longer booking / regular clients as the target and others clearly on as many as possible

I think if you asking about PM to a lot of guys as part of this , some will like it , to me its a no but I do not condemn it indeed see its benefits .

Escorts are the Hunter in part , adverts are just that a lure might be a way of saying it , but a fisherman is a hunter , better also say fisher woman The trick is to make us feel as if we are in part the hunter at least for some of us

I have been motivated more than a few times by posts on here , as it creates intrigue for me . I like seduction on many levels including the pre meeting stuff. I really like Amys posts on the site and love to talk with her but given how she places herself an appointment would be a no , and that is fair enough , good on her for her boundaries much respect

You are not a post advert and see how it goes person , way more proactive than that , is that hunting , I guess but your personality creates that skill. Once all are happy its good . I would say if I received a PM along with 50 others its a negative but thats just me .

This thread is a good hunting gun in itself , good on you .