Serious q: negative impact on relationships

[randaddy2017]

Have many/any of you who have/had partners (wife/gf) experienced a negative impact on your personal relationship with your them (wife/gf) due to you punting?

This could be in minor way (less turned on by partner) or more significant (sex addiction, caught std, break-up).

It sadden me to say I have. Sex with my partner seems, at times, boring compared to that with an escort. I feel shitty admitting that, but its the truth. Just wondering if Im alone. Are any of you in largely good relationships with someone your not quite sexually compatible with?