oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx
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oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx
Do not make any snap decisions here. Please come down to Dublin as soon as you are finished in Belfast and we can chat about the pros and cons of this over a nice cup of tea.Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester
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I'd advise u to give up the job & sail away into the sunset with your lover u will no doubt have a more fulfilling life & live happily ever after noones gonna live forever ya know so do this & best of luck...
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Very difficult to know what to do. If you are in love with him id give it a go. We all deserve happiness at some stage. good luck with what you decide
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Then its a choice between who and what do you love more. Maybe in a while you would tire of this so maybe you could do a Ross n Rachel. If you really love this job to the point that you will resent him for leaving it then at that point its not a relationship but a set of conditions that one person is not happy with, end result... mega bust up, might take 20 years but it will come.
No keep your independence, he knew what you did when he met you, always dangerous when someone tries to change you into something your not. Has to be your decision to give it up not his
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its a tough one.... if u do it, u should be 100% sure that u want to, no point in resenting him in the future. he knew what he was getting into from the start but maybe it gets harder as his love gets stronger for u. i hate the thought of people going out with someone but with the intention of changing certain things about them...everybody is different though and every situation is too. Its your decision at the end of the day.
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Funnily enough, one of the most important things for a relationship to be a success is for each partner to have an element of their life that is seperate from the other.
My inexpert advice would be to be a little careful. Its understandable why a man would want you to give up the business but at the same time just make sure that its what you both want.
How about a compromise where you work maybe 2 days a week?
If I was in your fellas situation I would want you to give up escorting too, it's only natural for someone not to want to share their partner. Does he still see other escorts or has he given up that aspect of his life? If he has then maybe you should too, not everyone cheats, when ever I am in a relationship I stop seeing escorts too. At the end of the day this is an anonymous Internet forum so peoples advice is really worthless, including my own. You're the only person here that fully knows you situation and feelings for this guy so you'll have to make your own mind up
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