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    A question for both the lovely ladies and gents on here. I met and fell in love with a client 18 months ago, he has no money no big sports car, a modest sex life but I love him. He now wants me to stop working and be with only him. Do i or dont i? The money doesnt matter, he treats me tenderly and I could imagine a future with him, but would it always be in the back of your mind do you trust him and can he trust me? Who else has had this happen. I am not a young girlie with dreams or pretty woman lol. Lets see how honest you all are lol xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester View Post
    A question for both the lovely ladies and gents on here. I met and fell in love with a client 18 months ago, he has no money no big sports car, a modest sex life but I love him. He now wants me to stop working and be with only him. Do i or dont i? The money doesnt matter, he treats me tenderly and I could imagine a future with him, but would it always be in the back of your mind do you trust him and can he trust me? Who else has had this happen. I am not a young girlie with dreams or pretty woman lol. Lets see how honest you all are lol xxx
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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester View Post
    A question for both the lovely ladies and gents on here. I met and fell in love with a client 18 months ago, he has no money no big sports car, a modest sex life but I love him. He now wants me to stop working and be with only him. Do i or dont i? The money doesnt matter, he treats me tenderly and I could imagine a future with him, but would it always be in the back of your mind do you trust him and can he trust me? Who else has had this happen. I am not a young girlie with dreams or pretty woman lol. Lets see how honest you all are lol xxx
    Thats a tough one, on the one hand its understandable why he would wish you to stop escorting, but on the other you have to do what you are happy doing and he knows you are doing seeing as you meet by this means, I think two people who meet this way and things develop do have a better chance as no one has to lie and no one has the other one over a barrel and use it against you in a fight or spat over the remote control or something more serious in the future.

    If earnings are not an issue then I say follow your heart but I think if he has limited means then what will certainly be on the back of his mind would be is she happy, is she missing the money that she was earning and now has less, does she resent me for this being a condition. Ye would need to get those things ironed out as they will fester over time and in the end will rise to the surface over time.
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    oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester View Post
    oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx
    Do not make any snap decisions here. Please come down to Dublin as soon as you are finished in Belfast and we can chat about the pros and cons of this over a nice cup of tea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester View Post
    oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx
    Then its a choice between who and what do you love more. Maybe in a while you would tire of this so maybe you could do a Ross n Rachel. If you really love this job to the point that you will resent him for leaving it then at that point its not a relationship but a set of conditions that one person is not happy with, end result... mega bust up, might take 20 years but it will come.

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    I'd advise u to give up the job & sail away into the sunset with your lover u will no doubt have a more fulfilling life & live happily ever after noones gonna live forever ya know so do this & best of luck...

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    Very difficult to know what to do. If you are in love with him id give it a go. We all deserve happiness at some stage. good luck with what you decide
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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester View Post
    oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx
    No keep your independence, he knew what you did when he met you, always dangerous when someone tries to change you into something your not. Has to be your decision to give it up not his
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    its a tough one.... if u do it, u should be 100% sure that u want to, no point in resenting him in the future. he knew what he was getting into from the start but maybe it gets harder as his love gets stronger for u. i hate the thought of people going out with someone but with the intention of changing certain things about them...everybody is different though and every situation is too. Its your decision at the end of the day.

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