I learned about my fetishes through sexual experience, mostly in relationship.
It was something that I got into as I went along, and I guess because the unusual and demanding nature on the female side I was a little put off by this "weird" urge. As I went along however I learnt that everybody has their thing and it is up to the individual to find another person that would match or come close to your fetish expectations.
Matter is very intimate however, since fetish is deemed as something that is not in the conventions of regular sexual relationship/ intercourse.
I still have some trouble expressing my fetish towards escorts, as I am aware of its nature and that a lot of people find it rather repulsive.
Last edited by Artistic89; 11-02-14 at 17:15.
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