by the way "bananabox" would be the perfect name for that advertiserOriginally Posted by bananabox999
Imagine the phone call
"Hello, your photos look manly, are you female?"
No, no, no, better to just move along to someone else if you suspect it.
No offence, and i have nothing against peoples choices, but they should be up front about it.
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by the way "bananabox" would be the perfect name for that advertiser
That's not the definition. In chemistry molecules with atoms grouped on the same side are labeled with the Latin prefix "cis-," while molecules with atoms grouped on opposite sides are referred to as "trans-". So they searched for that to use as an excuse yet they preach about inclusively and yet regroup and re-gender people who stick to sex assigned at fertilisation. Sex is not assigned at birth. 2 different sperms. 1 (the fast ones) are male and the slower ones are female. Sex is assigned when the egg is fertilised.
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I'm petty. Biological or natural are deemed as offensive to some trans women that are just men wanting to infiltrate female spaces. Genuine trans people don't really care about that. They're trans and loud and epic. But the men's, especially those in the US who became trans just to compete against women in sports now class those 2 words as hate speech. Like seriously?
Most trans people don't call none trans people cis. Just the loud few who call women 'birthing people' and want away with mothers/fathers days.
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Good auld Tittyfumbler
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I will be honest and say that I had clicked on Trans adverts by mistake. In some cases it stands out a mile, but the are some trans escort who look more women than some of the female escorts. I have even clicked on some of their videos because I thought their pictures were photoshopped and it could be very difficult to spot. This is why I believe Pre-op TS, and post-TS should be clearly stated on a profile. It's too late to find out when some heterosexual client is in the middle of an appointment. I totally think trans people should be respected, because they are a human person before anything else, but when their choices start to impact others it is a different story. Honestly and transparency is always the best policy in my book if you want to build lasting respect.
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I don’t know about a mile, if it stands out at all I’d be making a swift exit
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Dear Moderators,
I am sure that EI has a PC policy in place regarding this whole issue, but surely this thread has made clear how male, heterosexual clients feel about it. If EI takes the concerns of clients seriously there should be a change of policy and post-op should be clearly stated on a advertiser's profile. I am calling for EI to respectfully please take a look at their current policy considering post-op transgender people and stating this on profiles in the interest of open, honest transparency. This current policy could endanger post-op escorts if they met a client who was unstable and could potentially end in violence if the client believed that they were lied to. EI has a duty of care to post-op escorts and to clients who use their website. There are a whole list of reasons why it should be compulsory to make a disclosure as to gender. It seems strange that an escort can have a fake photograph report and even a rat put beside a review, a post-op transsexual is not required to declare gender reassignment openly on their advert.
I would be very grateful if the EI would please look into this issue on behalf of the clients who use the services of this website and make a public statement on the subject. Please note I cannot be emailed as the email account connected to my EI account has locked me out of it.
In closing, I think most people, both clients and advertiser's alike would like to see a change to current policy.
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There's a TV on here whose profile caught my eye several times, finally I decided to meet her. What I still remember of that phone call was her asking, "You do realise that I've got a dick, don't you?" She explained at our meeting that there was nothing more uncomfortable than meeting a new client that had made a mistake.
That's from an escort that clearly advertises as TV.
However I've also met someone that believed that she was female all her life even though she had a very nice dick.
I also have a friend that had genital surgery at birth, doctors decided he was male, through his teens and early 20s, he went through a phase of cross dressing and gender identity which nearly killed him. Now he has decided to live out his life as a man.
Personally I believe that we need new words to describe such people, but it's not an issue that can be solved on this website. As far as I know, the law just allows for 2 genders, there's that, and there are human rights issues. If someone manages to legally change their gender to female. Then they are legally female and nobody has a right to call them otherwise.
Only way to change to male/female is to go back in time to the moment the egg was fertilised. However, one can transition to be a transman or a transwoman. Gender (woman) and sex (female) are 2 completely different things. You can be a transman with female genitalia or trans genitalia /transwoman with male genitalia/trans genitalia. So gender, woman, transwoman, man, transman, none binary and all the other ones that exist and are becoming too many to keep track of. Sex- male, female and intersex (born with both but female hormones will always trump male ones). So whilst gender is fluid, sex is NOT.
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