does visiting escorts leave you empty

[warmcome]

do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

[Morpheus]

do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

Of course I long for a loving long term sexual relationship, but hasn't happened inspite of my efforts.

I don't visit escorts as a replacment for the above. Escorts kindly provide for my sexual and intimacy needs albeit for a short period.

I think the quotation below sums it up pretty well:


“Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.”
― Woody Allen

[dr love]

Could give a smart ass comment to that but won't .

Nope it doesn't leave me empty in the slightest , but my circumstances are different than most .

Will only stop punting when the twig & berries call a natural halt so to speak .: doc

[Notatwork]

do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

Doesnt satisfy me at all.....i hate that my marraige reached the point that i had too choose seeing escorts.....paying for sex.....pathetic......and all the fake GFE........Its all a load of bollix

[mellors]

do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

A good question WC, although i have no desire to be in a relationship at the moment.
When i first started punting seeing an escort fulfilled everything i was looking for, but that started to wear off after a time.
Occasionally, yes, i just want raw sex but more often than not i prefer the GFE, with a few ladies i see more regularly. I love it, but when i get home. i want to go back for more (I dont)....so i dont know where that leaves me.
Funnily enough i had a very similar conversation in the arms of a beautiful woman earlier today

[JAMESCORK]

Empty??? Certainly not...

But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...

[mellors]

[QUOTE=JAMESCORK;921560]Empty??? Certainly not...

But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...[/QUOTE]

Agree entirely JC, in my case its not any kind of emotional attachment (a slippery slope i agree), just the appointment is just so enjoyable

[warmcome]

Empty??? Certainly not...

But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...

you bag is empty and is your wallet, er James

[max california]

Never really had any serious relationships so at the moment a fun hour or so with an attractive woman is fine.
I probably would like a long term relationship at some stage, although there's no guarantee that I'd stop seeing escorts even if I was involved.

[Big J]

To be in the company and be intimate with a woman is a mans basic need,so for instance if he is married or in a relationship and is not fullfiling that intimate need he will go and seek it elswhere.The desicion then is to either have an affair and have strings or go to an escort and dont have any.