do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?
do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?
Of course I long for a loving long term sexual relationship, but hasn't happened inspite of my efforts.
I don't visit escorts as a replacment for the above. Escorts kindly provide for my sexual and intimacy needs albeit for a short period.
I think the quotation below sums it up pretty well:
“Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.”
― Woody Allen
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
Big J (27-10-12), hitman76 (28-10-12), john connor (28-10-12), NewMoon (27-10-12), Ted E Bear (27-10-12)
Could give a smart ass comment to that but won't .
Nope it doesn't leave me empty in the slightest , but my circumstances are different than most .
Will only stop punting when the twig & berries call a natural halt so to speak .: doc
Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc
NewMoon (27-10-12)
A good question WC, although i have no desire to be in a relationship at the moment.
When i first started punting seeing an escort fulfilled everything i was looking for, but that started to wear off after a time.
Occasionally, yes, i just want raw sex but more often than not i prefer the GFE, with a few ladies i see more regularly. I love it, but when i get home. i want to go back for more (I dont)....so i dont know where that leaves me.
Funnily enough i had a very similar conversation in the arms of a beautiful woman earlier today
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "
very shy guy (27-10-12)
Empty??? Certainly not...
But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.
But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...
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[QUOTE=JAMESCORK;921560]Empty??? Certainly not...
But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.
But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...[/QUOTE]
Agree entirely JC, in my case its not any kind of emotional attachment (a slippery slope i agree), just the appointment is just so enjoyable
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "
Never really had any serious relationships so at the moment a fun hour or so with an attractive woman is fine.
I probably would like a long term relationship at some stage, although there's no guarantee that I'd stop seeing escorts even if I was involved.
There is nothing worse for the lying soul than the mirror of reality
Morpheus (28-10-12)