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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    I have read a few threads recently, and I have started to think that for some seeing escorts isn't actually a hobby, it is a compulsive addiction. What are your thoughts? Is it truly for fun, to fill a void, or a little voice saying '' go on then''? When does the fun stop, and the compulsion take over? What would it take to stop you punting? Can you stop?
    For me visiting escorts is still tremendous fun for the most part. The only thing that would stop me is a lack of money or if I became gravely ill and was unable to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    Well, thats the thing, isnt it? If your relationship is stale and you can go and shag Claudia Shiffer (for a small tariff) what hope do you have of resurrecting the old excitement within your relationship?
    i dont think you can really not for me anyway
    its prob just me but i think i just get bored been with the same person

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    Quote Originally Posted by lonely View Post
    i dont think you can really not for me anyway
    its prob just me but i think i just get bored been with the same person
    It no way is just you...however for some temptation has never been so close. I know what you mean though, I love spinach but I couldnt eat it very day
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    Not in a relationship so probably do it for different reasons to some. Have bit of an addictive personality anyway. It started as a 'hobby' but enjoyed it so much that it began to get into an addiction, but that didn't last too long (kid in a sweet shop scenario) and now more back to a hobby,although I wouldn't list it on my CV. Someone started a post saying that there weren;t so many escorts about now,I have to disagree, my favs of must sees keeps growing. The trouble is there's just too many gorgeous women around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    It no way is just you...however for some temptation has never been so close. I know what you mean though, I love spinach but I couldnt eat it very day
    yeah you cant beat enjoying something new and diff
    fair play to all those who settle down with someone and are happy with being with just that person

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    I have read a few threads recently, and I have started to think that for some seeing escorts isn't actually a hobby, it is a compulsive addiction. What are your thoughts? Is it truly for fun, to fill a void, or a little voice saying '' go on then''? When does the fun stop, and the compulsion take over? What would it take to stop you punting? Can you stop?
    Very good point, I have been punting for years, started down the canals then the massage parlours and now with our lovely escorts, I continue punting even though I have no job, saving a five here and a fiver there¸ I really dont want to give it up and to be honest I am not sure I could. I am middle aged with a wife who has no interest in sex (and never really had) while I still have a pretty high sex drive.
    But at this stage of my life it is more than just wham "bam thank you mam"! of course I love the sex but it is also the physicality, the caress, the touch, smell etc but I also really get off on the subtifuge, sussing out the girls, making contact the whole package...secters.... guess I am a bit of an adreneline junkie, I often wonder why I still do it, but then say what the hell and pick up that phone!!!
    Sorry to ramble on, but I do find it a very interesting topic and one I guess I will never understand

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    I have read a few threads recently, and I have started to think that for some seeing escorts isn't actually a hobby, it is a compulsive addiction. What are your thoughts? Is it truly for fun, to fill a void, or a little voice saying '' go on then''? When does the fun stop, and the compulsion take over? What would it take to stop you punting? Can you stop?
    It became compulsive for me & I put an end to it as I'd have shag all monies to spare each month I decided to stop but more so I have always wanted to meet someone to love & share my life with & be happy forever with that one person I felt the longer I kept seeing escorts the further I was taking myself away from the chance of that happening The fact alone of having sex with someone u love deeply as opposed to sex with an escort is incomparable that feeling alone is something I dearly miss
    still on my own though...

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    Hmm, has become a need so its more addiction than hobby. Dont indulge when in a sexual relationship though. Also wouldnt describe it as an addiction like drugs etc but then no doubt a psychiatrist would disagree.

    Have had some great times though and met some great gals, some id say id admire as human beings more than most in the 'real' world

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    lucy lucy lucy..... i have 1 statement and u im sure know this MEN ARE DOGS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by click n pick View Post
    lucy lucy lucy..... i have 1 statement and u im sure know this MEN ARE DOGS.


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