Not in a relationship so probably do it for different reasons to some. Have bit of an addictive personality anyway. It started as a 'hobby' but enjoyed it so much that it began to get into an addiction, but that didn't last too long (kid in a sweet shop scenario) and now more back to a hobby,although I wouldn't list it on my CV. Someone started a post saying that there weren;t so many escorts about now,I have to disagree, my favs of must sees keeps growing. The trouble is there's just too many gorgeous women around.
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "
Very good point, I have been punting for years, started down the canals then the massage parlours and now with our lovely escorts, I continue punting even though I have no job, saving a five here and a fiver there¸ I really dont want to give it up and to be honest I am not sure I could. I am middle aged with a wife who has no interest in sex (and never really had) while I still have a pretty high sex drive.
But at this stage of my life it is more than just wham "bam thank you mam"! of course I love the sex but it is also the physicality, the caress, the touch, smell etc but I also really get off on the subtifuge, sussing out the girls, making contact the whole package...secters.... guess I am a bit of an adreneline junkie, I often wonder why I still do it, but then say what the hell and pick up that phone!!!
Sorry to ramble on, but I do find it a very interesting topic and one I guess I will never understand
Lucy Chambers (22-03-11), mellors (22-03-11), pez (23-03-11), wanted the best 69 (23-03-11)
It became compulsive for me & I put an end to it as I'd have shag all monies to spare each month I decided to stop but more so I have always wanted to meet someone to love & share my life with & be happy forever with that one person I felt the longer I kept seeing escorts the further I was taking myself away from the chance of that happening The fact alone of having sex with someone u love deeply as opposed to sex with an escort is incomparable that feeling alone is something I dearly miss
still on my own though...
Hmm, has become a need so its more addiction than hobby. Dont indulge when in a sexual relationship though. Also wouldnt describe it as an addiction like drugs etc but then no doubt a psychiatrist would disagree.
Have had some great times though and met some great gals, some id say id admire as human beings more than most in the 'real' world
lucy lucy lucy..... i have 1 statement and u im sure know this MEN ARE DOGS.