Originally Posted by
PhilPhilPhil
I think there can be a reluctance to go for true Tantra as it might be felt by some that the breathing exercises, ritual elements etc are a 'waste of time' and also that there may or may not be mutual touching depending on the Tantra providers approach (it distracts as the focus should be on the receiver?) and the final barriers that it tends to be more expensive per hour and ideally you need even more than an hour. Personally I'd love to try it out but don't have enough free time right now.