Originally Posted by
Averageatbest93
I'm a few years older than yourself , 29, and I remember feeling similar to you , even thinking about it the first time. As men were expected to be able to secure sexual partners , in school and college etc if someone doesn't get laid they are slagged and made feel inferior and we develop under that pre-text that if we can't get women we are failures and lesser men. I'd imagine that's where a lot of your shame is coming from, am I such a failure that I actually have to pay for it ?
Once you stop and think about it logically , ok I am paying for a service , it's going to be infinitely quicker than going on dating apps and trying to find someone , most of the ladies on here are absolute super models that you'd never pull regardless in the 'real world' , you can get exactly what you are looking for with your dream looking girl , and it'll all be carried out professionally to please you and really it's cheaper than trying to organise a date. Get new clothes , pay for a restaurant and drinks and taxi etc and then maybe not even end up having sex. Once you've had that one really good meet with a beautiful woman you're whole thinking will change.
I made the novice mistake of visiting some ladies with with reviews turned off, and there's definitely a totally different feel of meeting someone with little to no English , in a seedy apartment , who doesn't provide a good service and all feels forced , no chat after. It's definitely much easier to feel shameful when your first experiences are like that. But once you meet an established girl , in a nice place who genuinely enjoys their work , your entire perception will change trust me. I've made friends with several ladies I've met , helped them set up Irish bank accounts and with documents so they could get rental agreements etc, the women who have the stones to work in this industry and the ones who enjoy it will be unlike any person you'll ever meet in the normal world and you'll learn to appreciate and value them and revel in the experiences they can provide.
There's also something both incredibly liberating and exciting knowing you have access to some of the most beautiful women in the country ready to fulfil all your desires at your fingertips , as opposed to fawning over social media apps swiping through girls who you'll never have a chance with.
Keep at it , think logically and if you haven't already visit some of the more well reviewed ladies on here , be very vocal about your desires beforehand , let me tell you there will be no shame felt when you leave a meet with a beautiful woman totally drained and satisfied exactly how you imagined.