How to stop?

[morelovin]

For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.

[Clubcard]

You could always go back to a Nokia 3310 and looking forward to tugging yourself for 10 mins during the free view on adult channel.

[64west]

For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.

Fair question but I’ll start with why you have an account.
The majority of punters just use the site as a directory with no other interest. A small portion of them will casually read these forums, still they don’t have any intent to create an account post reviews and comment on here.
Delete your account, stop posting reviews and it may be a small bit easier that way.
You don’t have to quit cold turkey either. If you genuinely want to quit spread meetings out to weeks, then months and then maybe 3-4 punts per yea or lessr, Easier to manage the risk if you can get down to 3 per year. Also manage risk by visiting quiet hours or visit ladies that are not in your local city or county.


How does one quit smoking or Alcohol, It won’t be easy. But start with deleting ‘morelovin’.

[TheFalcon]

I used to feel a certain guilt but I dont really feel that any longer,

these beautiful women keep me young and if there is something I look forward too and enjoy why should I stop doing it,

some of the women Ive met on here are more my kindred spirits than the type of women I meet in real life- (well I suppose you can argue they are skilled at doing that too)

but as I say I enjoy it- lol one lady especially Ive grown close too and even when she retires and even if we are both married to other people- I imagine we will still see each other- whether it will be sexual or purely platonic in the future I dont know,

to answer your question- if you want to get out- then dont grow attached to them- if you keep it completely transactional your more likely to eventually stop,

once you build connections with some of the ladies it is harder to walk away.

[UnFulfilledScott]

You could always go back to a Nokia 3310 and looking forward to tugging yourself for 10 mins during the free view on adult channel.

Are they still selling print copies of The Irish Sport?

[64west]

Are they still selling print copies of The Irish Sport?

There was always a great column on page 2

[oldfool]

You could always go back to a Nokia 3310 and looking forward to tugging yourself for 10 mins during the free view on adult channel.

My punter phone is a Nokia that physically looks broken. Friends think I hold on to it for nostalgia

[morelovin]

Thanks, very fair points here. I asked here because there may be some people facing similar anxiety and conflict. No judgement whatsoever on others in position or happy to continue. Life is complicated.

[UnFulfilledScott]

There was always a great column on page 2

That's definitely the reason I bought it.

[Clubcard]

Are they still selling print copies of The Irish Sport?

Ahh no canteen or work break was complete without it.