How to stop?

[SteveB]

Fair question but I’ll start with why you have an account.
The majority of punters just use the site as a directory with no other interest. A small portion of them will casually read these forums, still they don’t have any intent to create an account post reviews and comment on here.
Delete your account, stop posting reviews and it may be a small bit easier that way.
You don’t have to quit cold turkey either. If you genuinely want to quit spread meetings out to weeks, then months and then maybe 3-4 punts per yea or lessr, Easier to manage the risk if you can get down to 3 per year. Also manage risk by visiting quiet hours or visit ladies that are not in your local city or county.


How does one quit smoking or Alcohol, It won’t be easy. But start with deleting ‘morelovin’.

Being and posting here is like trying to give up drink and going down to the pub and thinking you can just drink diet coke.

[TommyH123]

There was always a great column on page 2

By page 6-7 I was the one with the big column ��

On the subject of retiring, it’s easy, I’ve done it 4-5 times

[dublindweller]

Firstly you have to disengage with the site, as another poster has suggested. It's never easy to go cold turkey so try limit yourself to a set maximum.. Once a week or once a month or whatever you can manage

Find something else to do for the couple of hours you would be usually punting, make sure to stay at home if possible, do some DIY or simple cleaning and organising the house or car.
also as punting is normally done solo , it's important to find a person to hang out with for the time you would normally slip off, it's harder to give in to temptation when in company ..


I find I decide to visit girls, when I'm on my own looking at profiles, and then make an excuse to disappear for an hour or so ... this becomes so much harder when you're surrounded by other people .. lastly , have a wank now and again.. its great for relieving the urge to use the services available.. Good luck

[Stephanie]

For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.

It’s called Willpower .





Unless it’s a case of addiction - where willpower alone may not be enough and outside help is needed - ,

Will-Power is what it’s called and as an adult human being you should ( ? ) possess it ?

Is it a case of Addiction in your case ?

Addiction : when your desired activity supersedes common caution to the detriment of your life .

Is That your case ?

[Stephanie]

For many in this community, visiting escorts is why you’re here. You may have nothing to lose if caught. Many here too may have much to lose and are playing a delicate game that probably involves a lot of anxiety. This is me. Question is, are there people here that want to stop but fall foul of compulsively returning to make a visit. I began this behaviour in the summer and thought I could purge it from my system. However, now with a few visits under my belt it’s all too easy. The difficulty is the longer it continues the greater the risk of something happening with catastrophic consequences(I m not really talking about the law). So, how do you get out and stay out. Probably the wrong forum! Interested all the same if there are similar thoughts or experiences.

It’s called Willpower .





Unless it’s a case of addiction - where willpower alone may not be enough and outside help is needed - ,

Will-Power is what it’s called and as an adult human being you should ( ? ) possess it ?

Is it a case of Addiction in your case ?

Addiction : when your desired activity supersedes common caution to the detriment of your life .

Is That your case ?

Are you powerless over your desires ?

Despite the danger it poses to your Whole social existence ? Your family ?

Are you powerless ?

[Stephanie]

Darn , got timed out .

Had such a humanistic ‘consider all options / corners / feelings / risk - benefit’ piece written up

[Clubcard]

It’s called Willpower .





Unless it’s a case of addiction - where willpower alone may not be enough and outside help is needed - ,

Will-Power is what it’s called and as an adult human being you should ( ? ) possess it ?

Is it a case of Addiction in your case ?

Addiction : when your desired activity supersedes common caution to the detriment of your life .

Is That your case ?

Is there a nicorette patch sorta thing he could use?

Maybe a small yankee candle or a pack of baby wipes and just take it out of his pocket for a sniff every bow and then.

[TommyH123]

I think your plan to quit, like go cold turkey is unrealistic, it’s simply not going to happen.

Modify your behavior first, going by your reviews you don’t seem to be in the class of some here, the addicts, twice a week every week, just a habit, like a smoker, a chain punters, is that a thing?.

Set yourself limits, once a month or every six weeks, see If you can go longer over time but remember to reward yourself along the way, believe it or not there’s more to life than sex, yeah its fun but that’s all it is..fun, not life or death.

[IrishSarahBarra]

Being and posting here is like trying to give up drink and going down to the pub and thinking you can just drink diet coke.

Idk, we could run some sort of campaign or something.

[igor10]

My punter phone is a Nokia that physically looks broken. Friends think I hold on to it for nostalgia

Stephen is that you ? :P