I think this one is directed vaguely towards myself. I am rather guarded about whom I tell about my punting activities, and the one single friend who knows my E-I profile is someone I trust COMPLETELY with that information, and I have more faith in his discretion than anyone else I know. Also note that I 'm NOT married and also don't have family around, so I really don't have any fear of someone finding out my 'big secret' anyway, as there's very few people who would be affected by finding out anyway, or people who could find out that I absolutely don't want to find out. In turn, my friend has entrusted me with full knowledge of his own wild antics, and told me of the (literally) dozens of women he's cheated on his wife with. As I said, I trust him completely, but if for some reason things ever turned sour in the friendship and he would threaten to 'expose' me, I in turn would be able to ruin his marriage, something he definitely DOESN'T want to happen. So if nothing else, the doctrine of 'mutually assured destruction' will keep my secrets safe with him!