Hitting it off x

[Stephanie]

That is more than hitting it off Stephanie, that is the chemistry that Wolfie was talking about. In your case it was mental and physical Chemistry. I've had that happen once on an equal level. I found it quite hard to handle, as he awakend feelings I didn't know I could feel. I had to stop it for my own good and likely his.

See, that's what I was talking about . That's what I was asking in my op. That's what I meant by 'hitting it off' , and

that's where my question came from : To the guys -- do you become a regular, or walk away..

And for the girls -- do you carry on or stop seeing him.. And you answered me, Kate. You had to stop for your own good.

My friend also stopped visiting me after several meetings, as it was becoming too much for him..

[wolfie]

That is more than hitting it off Stephanie, that is the chemistry that Wolfie was talking about. In your case it was mental and physical Chemistry. I've had that happen once on an equal level. I found it quite hard to handle, as he awakend feelings I didn't know I could feel. I had to stop it for my own good and likely his.

Yes Kate, I know exactly what you mean. Tough decision to make but for your own sake it's a big one
In my opinion "Click" & "Chemistry" are completely different. It's like "Lovemaking" opposed to "Sex"

[Stephanie]

Wow Stephanie. You must be yery addictive. I think you would have that effect on me too if we were to meet. I always know within moments of meeting an escort if we will "click" or not.

Pez xx ,

Ah , I don't think I'm special in any way.. I am certain that this happens with other girls too.

I related my story only in an attempt to clarify what I meant by 'hitting it off'

But I look forward to test your assumption

[wolfie]

Just out of interest Steph.......
I know that primarily its a business transaction but in the case you mentioned did you ever consider going to the next level?
I suspect I know your answer ........ but we're you even slightly tempted to deviate??

[anon361]

For me it's nice to realy click with someone, it hasn't happened many times, yes a lot of appointments were fantastic, we got on great but the real click wasn't there. When it has happened I usually go back and see the lady a second time but I can count on 1 hand how many times that has happened, 1 I never went back to see. But at the end of the day it's a business transaction and I go see ladies for variety, I don't loose sight of that, we can meet our true love in any circumstance no matter what her job but I am not looking for true love so I can easily walk away from any situation.

[TheNads]

See, that's what I was talking about . That's what I was asking in my op. That's what I meant by 'hitting it off' , and

that's where my question came from : To the guys -- do you become a regular, or walk away..

And for the girls -- do you carry on or stop seeing him.. And you answered me, Kate. You had to stop for your own good.

My friend also stopped visiting me after several meetings, as it was becoming too much for him..

Hi Stephanie,
I can understand your guy having to stop visiting you. Attraction & compatibility are one thing but life isn't straightforward ................
I have met one or 2 ladies who I have hit it off with & under different circumstances could well have developed something with. They were / are special ladies & my mind hasn't changed on that score. I stopped seeing them by choice & as a result of this attraction. My life just doesn't have room for further complications, even if they might have entertained me :-(.
Hope you're doing well !
Nads. XXX

[Forrest]

I have had a few ''first time' appointments where everything seemed to be so spontaneous and natural,
and I came out feeling like Adonis, wondering had I just stepped out of a dream.

In those situations, I will look for repeat appointments, and I have become a 'regular' with some ladies
over the years. I became very fond of one particular lady, meeting her regularly for about 18 months
until she went home last year, but always kept the right balance between the business & emotional element.
We still chat by email occasionally now, and it's nice to know that she is getting on well in the next stage
of her life, but wants to keep in touch with me, as it means it wasn't all business for her either.

As others have said, the more the professional the escort, the harder it is to separate reality from fantasy,
so 'hitting it off' is more likely in those circumstances. Repeat encounters have never disappointed either.

[royaler]

Ah, so how often does it happen ? And how ? Soon as you walk in the door, or does it develop over the appointment ?

What are the qualities that make you feel that you 'click' ? (surely this may be different for everyone..)

Do you get somewhat attached to a girl that you 'hit it off' with ? Become a regular ?

Or is it too scary and you walk away ?

Or for the girls : refuse to see him again ?

I have a 'couple of' fantastic experiences, but I'd like to hear from you xx

For me it has usually started long before getting to the door ... you can learn lots from pms ... certainly enough to know whether you are going to complete the visit or not!
The phone call doesn't can have an influence but I'm usually so excited at that stage, so I am unlikely to change my mind!
Ah but those first moments at the door. From my point of view I will always smile and be friendly ( I can't really be any other way in any event!) and will be courteous and respectful. Breaking the ice can be so much about the beautiful lady and her professionalism. Attention to detail in creating the atmosphere is so important! Passionate GFE kissing, drinks etc are great ... but it is really brilliant when you can talk about common interests and just have 'a bit of banter'. Of course this can be difficult sometimes if there is a language barrier!
After that well if both of you give it your all well ... heaven is definitely missing some angels and I have had the pleasure of meeting them!

[max california]

See, that's what I was talking about . That's what I was asking in my op. That's what I meant by 'hitting it off' , and

that's where my question came from : To the guys -- do you become a regular, or walk away..

And for the girls -- do you carry on or stop seeing him.. And you answered me, Kate. You had to stop for your own good.

My friend also stopped visiting me after several meetings, as it was becoming too much for him..

There's a few ladies that I meet on a regular basis but it's a business arrangement.
I'm quite aware of where I stand on the ladder of.attractiveness and it's several rungs below most ladies I've met.
So as I'm very realistic and know nothing will develop from a one hour appointment every few months, especially as slightly overweight, balding, poorly paid Irishmen from the middle of nowhere aren't considered a top catch, it's not a problem

[Curvaceous Kate]

There's a few ladies that I meet on a regular basis but it's a business arrangement.
I'm quite aware of where I stand on the ladder of.attractiveness and it's several rungs below most ladies I've met.
So as I'm very realistic and know nothing will develop from a one hour appointment every few months, especially as slightly overweight, balding, poorly paid Irishmen from the middle of nowhere aren't considered a top catch, it's not a problem

Funnily enough the client that I had the most amazing experience with was older than me, where I haven't dated anyone older than me in 12 years and he was bold and I normally go for guys with thick black hair. He was also a little over weight (only just) but he was so manly and broad I didn't care a hoot. It was him that I found mesmerising and for me the whole package worked. I'd probably not have looked at him twice if I had met him out on the street.