Hitting it off x

[Stephanie]

Ahhh...as usual I have have misread the thread! Or rather misread the terminology.


To me "hitting it off" or "clicking" means getting on really well with someone, and not just in a sexual sense. A lady that should we have met under different circumstances - we could have been quite happy hanging out together.


But I see you are asking about chemistry - falling for someone. That takes awhile for that to happen to me. It's never happened to me at first sight (in real life or with escorts). That's just my personality.

There was on particular lady (an escort) that had been tugging at my heart strings. But I hadn't really realised this. I had just started seeing escorts, and was smitten with her in whole lot of different ways. However, like most escorts she left and moved on after awhile. So that was thankfully the end of it. It was only when she left that the emotions I felt, made me realise that I should be more careful in the future.

Since then I've tried to space out appointments between the girls I revisit and not visit any one lady too much or exclusively.

LOL x

Who would have thought there'd be a language barrier between American and Irish

So I guess what I call 'hitting it off' you call 'chemistry'.. which is funny because we say 'chemistry', referring to sexual attraction.

Chemistry is purely physical, whereas 'hitting it off' goes beyond that. Much more beyond that. When you find yourself both

intellectually and physically , dare I say emotionally instantly drawn to a person.. overwhelming -- that's 'hitting it off'


The clicking factor.. Oh Yeah !! Now that is something entirely different.. I venture to say it's precious in our line of

entertainment lol x How to explain it ? How to describe it ? In my mind (and heart) clicking is for that time and that place..

It is wonderful, bringing two people together in perfect harmony for that fleeting hour or two. It enriches any encounter, it's what

makes a meeting memorable. It works in that setting with those conditions, at that time.. The natural flow of two people interacting,

the effortlessness of action and thought , the wordless communication of need and desire, and the willingness to fulfill..

The 'clicking factor' works, because we make the effort before we meet you. Because we put thought into our encounters and have

an open mind and an accepting nature and are willing to give. And to give of ourselves.. It works because we are at our best for you.


Hm. Just now thinking, I'd say I click with most of my visitors.. I have chemistry with oohh quite a few lol

(MrYesterday 1pm lol, MrThursday 12pm soon to become Friday 12pm lol ) , but 'hitting it off' is a very rare wonder....

[Rodney69]

Now I'm confused. Looks like quite a few may have misread this thread so. Lost in translation. :-) Maybe we just weren't clicking

[Stephanie]

Now I'm confused. Looks like quite a few may have misread this thread so. Lost in translation. :-) Maybe we just weren't clicking

LOL x I better leave the subject before I manage to confuse even myself lol xx

[Curvaceous Kate]

Now I'm confused. Looks like quite a few may have misread this thread so. Lost in translation. :-) Maybe we just weren't clicking

I think it's been lost in translation, as for me 'hitting it off' is what you say when you meet someone new and really enjoy their company and feel like you have known them forever. It has nothing to so with sexual terms. You can hit it off with anyone and possibly never see them again, but for that time you got on great.

I'm not sure, but I think most people here would translate it that way.

I think what stephanie is describing is a combination of the 'hitting it off' as I translate it and chemistry together, so that when you kiss that person you get the butter flies and your heart in your mouth, but also when you talk to each other everything makes sense and feels right. You find yourself waiting on every word and nodding in agreement and when they leave you can't take the smile off your face.

I'm not sure what word or phrase we have for that feeling?

[Rodney69]

I think it's been lost in translation, as for me 'hitting it off' is what you say when you meet someone new and really enjoy their company and feel like you have known them forever. It has nothing to so with sexual terms. You can hit it off with anyone and possibly never see them again, but for that time you got on great.

I'm not sure, but I think most people here would translate it that way.

I think what stephanie is describing is a combination of the 'hitting it off' as I translate it and chemistry together, so that when you kiss that person you get the butter flies and your heart in your mouth, but also when you talk to each other everything makes sense and feels right. You find yourself waiting on every word and nodding in agreement and when they leave you can't take the smile off your face.

I'm not sure what word or phrase we have for that feeling?

that's my interpretation too, and although it is not sexual, it does make the sex great because you are so relaxed in each others company.

[Stephanie]

I think it's been lost in translation, as for me 'hitting it off' is what you say when you meet someone new and really enjoy their company and feel like you have known them forever. It has nothing to so with sexual terms. You can hit it off with anyone and possibly never see them again, but for that time you got on great.

I'm not sure, but I think most people here would translate it that way.

I think what stephanie is describing is a combination of the 'hitting it off' as I translate it and chemistry together, so that when you kiss that person you get the butter flies and your heart in your mouth, but also when you talk to each other everything makes sense and feels right. You find yourself waiting on every word and nodding in agreement and when they leave you can't take the smile off your face.

I'm not sure what word or phrase we have for that feeling?

You got it Kate xx, that's exactly what I meant.. but to make things more complicated, there's also the business element..

I think clicking is a good reason to revisit, but (my kind of) 'hitting it off' may give you pause, and that's when the question

comes up : do you become a regular, or walk..



(ah, ok, I think I'm done with lol...)

[Chutney]

It does seem fiendishly difficult to pin down. Perhaps that's a good thing, that its so open to individual interpretation.
For me. I would have said 'hitting it off' was a first reaction to meeting a new person at work and finding a few things in common, so quite low key. Clicking is an instant, even instinctive feeling, a two way warmth and attraction.
Chemistry is visceral, all barriers and rational control forgotten, pure hedonism of the moment. ( I hope!)

[Curvaceous Kate]

It does seem fiendishly difficult to pin down. Perhaps that's a good thing, that its so open to individual interpretation.
For me. I would have said 'hitting it off' was a first reaction to meeting a new person at work and finding a few things in common, so quite low key. Clicking is an instant, even instinctive feeling, a two way warmth and attraction.
Chemistry is visceral, all barriers and rational control forgotten, pure hedonism of the moment. ( I hope!)

The main difference between the 3 in my opinion, is that you don't necessarily have to get on with someone you have chemistry with. There are loads of people who have had affairs or one night stands with someone they are chalk and cheese with mentally, but there is a magnetism (chemistry) sexually between them that draws them in. That is why chemistry on it's own is not enough to describe what Stephanie is talking about.

I agree with your reasoning on the 3 differences though.

[Patt113]

I think I’ve got it: ‘hitting it off’ is like ‘clicking’ only different; ‘clicking’ is a bit like ‘chemistry’, only different; ‘chemistry’ and ‘hitting it off’ only partly overlap (but in a good way). Anyone who is good with Venn Diagrams could save us all a lot of time.

[whatsup]

Interesting Thread!

As Kate said "If you some how naturally find yourselves with bodies entwined and hugging as you come back down from the climax and find yourselves chatting about God knows what, like you have known each other all your lives, then I think it is fair to say you have clicked."

Sometimes you know from the first minute that the person you meet is more than sexual gratification for you - There is a connection that cannot be denied.
But reality comes into play and when you are middle aged, bald and the only six pack you have is in the fridge it is hard to believe that this beautiful woman you have met could have any attraction for you.

Do you walk away -No. - just be realistic and accept that it is a business arrangement on their behalf.