Secret diary of a Dublin call girl

[samlad]

Not really. I have no experience in running PR campaigns. But maybe E-I might make a hefty contribution to an escorts fighting fund , if someone with real experience in this field was to be retained to head and co-ordinate such a campaign.! Surely, it would make good business sense too.

The problem is, like yourself, because of the current stigma towards sex workers in Ireland, not many escorts want to step out in the media. This is more than likely for two main reasons; a) they do not want to be exposed as an escort in public and b) the media would more than likely twist their stories anyway. Do you not think clients should be part of a fighting force too, considering that they are one of two halves that keep this industry alive?

With propaganda organisations setting out to epitomise the sex industry as perverted and degrading, surely it would be imperative for punters to also share their positive experiences too? What about disabled clients that struggle to fulfil their sexual desires? Men with low-self esteem issues? Men who love their partners but their partners for whatever reason cannot cater to their needs? These things should be mentioned too, surely?

[samlad]

then rhoumours would fly around saying peter mmc wrote the blog if e-i did that, the same thing that happened tobl
best not to get much help from e-i as it damages it

I agree that E-I would be accused of trying to save their business rather than trying to help escorts, which you know Kelly, we do behind the scenes anyway.

[herodotus]

Great post!

For the record I prob fall into the same category as Rodney!

I started to read this thread, and then decided I better have a look at the blog. Took a while to read, it is extremely well written. While not everyone may agree with all of the content, I commend her for sharing her experiences and traumas. I only hope now that she can start to put the past behind her and that she has a much happier and brighter life in the future.

While I always reflect on the choices I make, especially over the last while, reading this has made me think even more. I probably fall into the category of client she describes as the sad and lonely fecker and I’m not ashamed or embarrassed to admit it. While I may be single and choose to see escorts now and again, it is not something I am proud of, nor is it something I ever saw myself doing. Growing up I never had much self confidence and was very self conscious. I never had much luck with the ladies. Up until 3 years ago the thought of visiting an escort never even crossed my mind. Then by chance I read about how rampant escorting is in Ireland, the whole focus of the article being on this site, how the escorts advertise and the review system. Eventually after a while just browsing I plucked up the courage and made an appointment.

DCG talks about her disgust at the review system, and I can see why depending on how they are written. But personally I have used the review system to help me make more informed choices, to help me choose ladies who I believe are genuinely independent and doing this of their own free choice and are happy to do it. And to the best of my knowledge it has worked. And in return I write a review mainly to show my appreciation to the lady and as a thank you, and I try to write them as respectfully as I can.

This world has given me something I didn’t have much of before, so much more self confidence and boosted my self esteem. But it has also given me companionship and intimacy with beautiful ladies, what is so wrong with that between consenting adults. Maybe it has become so normal for me, I don't see it objectively.

Reading this blog has made me reflect more, that not everything may be as rosey in the garden as it seems and not to take that for granted.

- back in my box now.

[ksteve]

then rhoumours would fly around saying peter mmc wrote the blog if e-i did that, the same thing that happened tobl
best not to get much help from e-i as it damages it

No,just money would be enough. If a straight forward donation is not on, I am quite sure the escorts here are more than capable of coming to some arrangement that would suit, ie waiver or reduction in adv fees so that money could be diverted by the escorts to a fund to cover the costs of a campaign manager.The opposition is well organised, so should you all be.There are livelihoods at stake here.

[ksteve]

The problem is, like yourself, because of the current stigma towards sex workers in Ireland, not many escorts want to step out in the media. This is more than likely for two main reasons; a) they do not want to be exposed as an escort in public and b) the media would more than likely twist their stories anyway. Do you not think clients should be part of a fighting force too, considering that they are one of two halves that keep this industry alive?

With propaganda organisations setting out to epitomise the sex industry as perverted and degrading, surely it would be imperative for punters to also share their positive experiences too? What about disabled clients that struggle to fulfil their sexual desires? Men with low-self esteem issues? Men who love their partners but their partners for whatever reason cannot cater to their needs? These things should be mentioned too, surely?

* Rte have never had a problem ( when they want to ) in presenting individuals in a good light, allowing them the opportunity to present their case properly , whilst still protecting the identity and privacy of the relevant individual concerned.Maybe one or two of the ladies here would come forward.

Would there be excellent quality spokespeople available in the UK ? There is a much more benign envirnment there and I am sure there would be plenty of able voices there as well.

Disabled -- the escorts in the UK have a group which looks after the needs of disabled clients.

* clients -- there may even be clients here, who under the right circumstances, would be prepared to voice the client side.I even think I remember Bruno69 saying something positive on this front.

[Lucy Chambers]

* Rte have never had a problem ( when they want to ) in presenting individuals in a good light, allowing them the opportunity to present their case properly , whilst still protecting the identity and privacy of the relevant individual concerned.Maybe one or two of the ladies here would come forward.

Would there be excellent quality spokespeople available in the UK ? There is a much more benign envirnment there and I am sure there would be plenty of able voices there as well.

Disabled -- the escorts in the UK have a group which looks after the needs of disabled clients.

* clients -- there may even be clients here, who under the right circumstances, would be prepared to voice the client side.I even think I remember Bruno69 saying something positive on this front.

Why would any Irish organisation listen to English PR people? Dont you think that any average person would be slightly cynical of slick camaigns? Plus, would you be willing to do something Ksteve? Maybe organise the clients, write a piece yourself, organise a donation point so that like minded individuals such as yourself could also donate some wonga? Few hours tweeting the address, writing to a few organisations giving the clients view?


Also, Im quite happy to negotiate with RTE, if the protect your anonymity you would be willing to do an interview toom right? After all, its you guys that will be criminalised.

[Patricia]

Ksteve, see my post here for my 2 cent https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...136#post717136

[ksteve]

it is not the nasty comments that need to be weeded out. Some peoples' ideas of flattering comments can be dreadful too. I think what needs to be remembered is that it's a human being being appraised on her looks and sexual performance! There is no justification in the world for this.
A multiple chioce tick box is all that's needed. Personal comments are uneccessary.

It is hard to argue the points you make , when this type of degrading stuff is let through;



https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html




" Met the escort last time she was in Gwy. Location was new to me, easily found and very nice. She's the girl in pics but mabye not quite so innocent looking. Service was good but lacked a little passion. If youre a fingering man she responds excellently and wants more and more. That paticular service did it for me as it is rear enough these days. Overall an enjoyable punt so I recommend you give her a call lads. "

Made me want to throw up -- the poor girl having to read this garbage.

[samlad]

* Rte have never had a problem ( when they want to ) in presenting individuals in a good light, allowing them the opportunity to present their case properly , whilst still protecting the identity and privacy of the relevant individual concerned.Maybe one or two of the ladies here would come forward.

Would there be excellent quality spokespeople available in the UK ? There is a much more benign envirnment there and I am sure there would be plenty of able voices there as well.

Disabled -- the escorts in the UK have a group which looks after the needs of disabled clients.

* clients -- there may even be clients here, who under the right circumstances, would be prepared to voice the client side.I even think I remember Bruno69 saying something positive on this front.

Yes, RTE put people in a good light, "when they want to". It's selective. You've not really answered my question... you are still insisting on the ladies coming forward. If you thought that RTE would protect your identity, would you step forward and discuss your postive punting experiences? Escorts won't step willingly step into an RTE documentary BECAUSE they don't trust them, because they have a reputation of being underhanded when it comes to the portrayal of the sex industry.

You have to bear in mind that their broadcasts are tailored to appease the masses; a Catholic-majority country that is supposed to be against "that sort of thing".

[samlad]

It is hard to argue the points you make , when this type of degrading stuff is let through;



https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html




" Met the escort last time she was in Gwy. Location was new to me, easily found and very nice. She's the girl in pics but mabye not quite so innocent looking. Service was good but lacked a little passion. If youre a fingering man she responds excellently and wants more and more. That paticular service did it for me as it is rear enough these days. Overall an enjoyable punt so I recommend you give her a call lads. "

Made me want to throw up -- the poor girl having to read this garbage.

This is 'let through' because the escort hasn't requested to opt out of sexually explicit reviews. She has a choice to avoid this sort of thing. Poor girl? According to this guy, she was very responsive to it and wanted more! LOL!