Secret diary of a Dublin call girl

[ksteve]

Can I ask.. Do you girls not talk to each other. As a punter I get the " I'm a nympho and may as well get paid for it" act that a lot (not all) play and am more than happy to play along. I dont expect any lady to be openly honest with me about her history or reason for being in the business but I did think that maybe you are/would be honest with each other.

I know a couple of independents outside Dublin that used to meet regularly enough. I dont know what they talked about but always thought that there would be a certain amount of honesty that would go hand in hand with the support you give each other.

Am i miles off ???

I have never been given that line as far as I can remember nor have I ever enquired about the lady's reason for being in the business, so her honesty or otherwise has never come into it really. Some lady's have volunteered info off their own bat but it is very seldom.

[Stephanie]

Perhaps this is a difference between the two cultures and I do think there are two cultures.

We have a saying " a problem shared, is a problem halved '. So yes, it is a good thing that the ladies here can let off steam here now and again, rather than bottling up their frustrations all the time and it is good for guys like me to get an insight into those things that do upset escorts . I also like to help and advise where I can, although due to the nature of things , that is not very often. Perhaps if DCG had sounded off a bit more , she might not be in the very bad place she seems to be in now.

Yes, without doubt cultural differences..

But hey,

I recently had an incident where I came within a hair's breadth to physically kicking somebody in the face.. viciously hard.

You wanna hear me rant on it ? I was livid furious. Nearly blinded by rage.. yea, so you wanna hear it ?



Do you know that every time you think about an experience, every time you tell a story, you strengthen the emotions that are

associated with that experience.. If the incidence arouses anger, then by telling and retelling, you become angrier. Same with

frustration, with fear, with joy, with happiness.. You do know this, no ? xx




(about incident above: my guest made an ill advised attempt at being funny, but came scary close to being maimed. And I did share the incident/vented with a trusted friend . It was all cool in the end )

[ksteve]

Do you know that every time you think about an experience, every time you tell a story, you strengthen the emotions that are

associated with that experience.. If the incidence arouses anger, then by telling and retelling, you become angrier. Same with

frustration, with fear, with joy, with happiness.. You do know this, no ? xx

You're sounding like Woody Allen again.!!

I just think its cathartic for someone who is frustrated or upset to be able to share this with others who are willing to listen and advise rather than keeping things bottled up inside.

Lets leave it there Steph -- we will just agree to disagree !

[Stephanie]

You're sounding like Woody Allen again.!!

I just think its cathartic for someone who is frustrated or upset to be able to share this with others who are willing to listen and advise rather than keeping things bottled up inside.

Lets leave it there Steph -- we will just agree to disagree !

Ah, "And I did share the incident/vented with a trusted friend . It was all cool in the end "

Yes, it is important to vent.

Then you pick yourself up, and onward and upward you go, and it's a wonderful life, and I choose to be happy xxx

We did go the full circle, huh ? xx

[UncleBob]

Hi Uncle Bob. You didn't answer the question from Lucy. I realise it may have been a simple oversight, but it's something I'd be interested in reading too, if you wouldn't mind.

No great mystery. I'm more familiar than I'd like with coming across activist attempts at disrupting groups and forums under false flags.

The alleycat, by the way, can go sharpen her claws somewhere else. The act's fairly boring by this stage, and I've more interesting things to be doing.

[Rodney69]

I started to read this thread, and then decided I better have a look at the blog. Took a while to read, it is extremely well written. While not everyone may agree with all of the content, I commend her for sharing her experiences and traumas. I only hope now that she can start to put the past behind her and that she has a much happier and brighter life in the future.

While I always reflect on the choices I make, especially over the last while, reading this has made me think even more. I probably fall into the category of client she describes as the sad and lonely fecker and I’m not ashamed or embarrassed to admit it. While I may be single and choose to see escorts now and again, it is not something I am proud of, nor is it something I ever saw myself doing. Growing up I never had much self confidence and was very self conscious. I never had much luck with the ladies. Up until 3 years ago the thought of visiting an escort never even crossed my mind. Then by chance I read about how rampant escorting is in Ireland, the whole focus of the article being on this site, how the escorts advertise and the review system. Eventually after a while just browsing I plucked up the courage and made an appointment.

DCG talks about her disgust at the review system, and I can see why depending on how they are written. But personally I have used the review system to help me make more informed choices, to help me choose ladies who I believe are genuinely independent and doing this of their own free choice and are happy to do it. And to the best of my knowledge it has worked. And in return I write a review mainly to show my appreciation to the lady and as a thank you, and I try to write them as respectfully as I can.

This world has given me something I didn’t have much of before, so much more self confidence and boosted my self esteem. But it has also given me companionship and intimacy with beautiful ladies, what is so wrong with that between consenting adults. Maybe it has become so normal for me, I don't see it objectively.

Reading this blog has made me reflect more, that not everything may be as rosey in the garden as it seems and not to take that for granted.

- back in my box now.

[Lucy Chambers]

No great mystery. I'm more familiar than I'd like with coming across activist attempts at disrupting groups and forums under false flags.

The alleycat, by the way, can go sharpen her claws somewhere else. The act's fairly boring by this stage, and I've more interesting things to be doing.

So you are so familiar with the activist attempts you were entirely wrong and accused someone of being a troll. Sigh.

Alleycat? Gosh, I am crushed. By such an intellectual too I suggest you keep your sniping to yourself, and off this thread. Time and a place, old chap.

[WTAT]

Wow Rodney, that's a real road to Damascus you've taken

[Anna23]

I started to read this thread, and then decided I better have a look at the blog. Took a while to read, it is extremely well written. While not everyone may agree with all of the content, I commend her for sharing her experiences and traumas. I only hope now that she can start to put the past behind her and that she has a much happier and brighter life in the future.

While I always reflect on the choices I make, especially over the last while, reading this has made me think even more. I probably fall into the category of client she describes as the sad and lonely fecker and I’m not ashamed or embarrassed to admit it. While I may be single and choose to see escorts now and again, it is not something I am proud of, nor is it something I ever saw myself doing. Growing up I never had much self confidence and was very self conscious. I never had much luck with the ladies. Up until 3 years ago the thought of visiting an escort never even crossed my mind. Then by chance I read about how rampant escorting is in Ireland, the whole focus of the article being on this site, how the escorts advertise and the review system. Eventually after a while just browsing I plucked up the courage and made an appointment.

DCG talks about her disgust at the review system, and I can see why depending on how they are written. But personally I have used the review system to help me make more informed choices, to help me choose ladies who I believe are genuinely independent and doing this of their own free choice and are happy to do it. And to the best of my knowledge it has worked. And in return I write a review mainly to show my appreciation to the lady and as a thank you, and I try to write them as respectfully as I can.

This world has given me something I didn’t have much of before, so much more self confidence and boosted my self esteem. But it has also given me companionship and intimacy with beautiful ladies, what is so wrong with that between consenting adults. Maybe it has become so normal for me, I don't see it objectively.

Reading this blog has made me reflect more, that not everything may be as rosey in the garden as it seems and not to take that for granted.

- back in my box now.

Thanks, Rodney. Nice post. It just shows, how such unbalanced blogs/info affects exactly the nice kind of client, that is already so rare.
If we dont put the story straight collectively, we will be left with only the creepy fuckers...
In the end it's good, that although by force, opinions are being expressed and the debate must be more open and honest by default.

[UKHeather]

I know there are reviews from some 'beastly' clients and also I am not a fan of explicit details in reviews either. I dont know what the stats are wrt negative vrs positive ( taking into account false ones submitted under both headings ) but just for interest I clicked onto the latest reviews page and there must be upwards of 50 reviews there and only one in red and even that didnt seem very nasty.

Surely Mods can weed out the nasty and unacceptable elements in reviews quite easily.

it is not the nasty comments that need to be weeded out. Some peoples' ideas of flattering comments can be dreadful too. I think what needs to be remembered is that it's a human being being appraised on her looks and sexual performance! There is no justification in the world for this.
A multiple chioce tick box is all that's needed. Personal comments are uneccessary.