Friendship with an escort?

[Sam Spade]

Anyone can be friends with anyone, escort or not. Evidently some believe that once an escort has taken your money then she sees only money. I think the problem lays with those who think in that way, not us as people. A point for some of you to consider is that you may already be friends with an escort and not know it, and those that even have to pose the question are perhaps not capable being friends with someone who escorts for a living. I don't think that it is unusual to be intimate with someone and for that occasionally develop into a friendship. I certainly have the same feelings, thoughts and emotions I did when I was not an escort- shouldn't I ?

As I said it depends on your definition of friendship.
Yes anyone can be friends, but to be a true friend - to truly support a friend to call upon in difficult times, that is a different question.
We all would love truly to be friends - but true friends with one another, that is a different issue.

[Lucy Chambers]

As I said it depends on your definition of friendship.
Yes anyone can be friends, but to be a true friend - to truly support a friend to call upon in difficult times, that is a different question.
We all would love truly to be friends - but true friends with one another, that is a different issue.

I would have thought that all friendships have the potential to turn into true friendship, if not, not. I think there is a little to much of this escorts- the new species. Come on.. I am going to have apply for a licence to be allowed out soon, and start checking to see if I have a tail or horns

[JAMESCORK]

I would have thought that all friendships have the potential to turn into true friendship, if not, not. I think there is a little to much of this escorts- the new species. Come on.. I am going to have apply for a licence to be allowed out soon, and start checking to see if I have a tail or horns

Wait a second here now. Ms Chambers. There is a difference between friendships outside of the escorting world and ones within. It doesn’t mean you are going to sprout horns. First of all the girls that advertise GFE, and are good at it, in effect offer a feigned friendship into the bargain. The hapless punter reading this as true friendship will get a land when his spondulucks run out. How can one every really be sure that we have a legit friendship going on here so long as money is being handed over. So don’t be so amazed at us guys wondering if friendships exist. When you lassies are so inviting and friendly you can’t blame a guy for raising an eyebrow and asking himself this question.

Now of course you are the exception, because you are soooo friendly…lol.

In any case… I maintain that a man and a woman cannot be true friends so long as he wants to get into her knickers and fondle her knockers….but that’s another thread…

Good morning Ms Chambers..

Your Friend
Jimbop….xxx

[El Gordo]

I have to say, after reading through this whole thread, I still find the question bizarre. It's like posting a thread "Could you be friends with an air traffic controller?" And some of the responses are equally bizarre. More or less at the level of "Yes, I could be friends with an air traffic controller, but only if I stopped flying."

[Doozer]

Could be worse.
Could anyone be friends with a trafiic warden or a clamper?

Im pretty sure escorts have friends as they shouldnt be defined as what they do just by what they are (as a person not job)
If an escort is a decent enough person I dont see why you shouldnt be come friends with them.

[mr maxi]

The answer to this question depends on your view or valuation of the term friend or friendship and it can be answered both yes and no.

My take on the term friend is someone who i would arrange to meet for a drink , someone who knows where i live , my partners name , what i do etc..... and someone who knows my real name and if you think any of the above is ever going to happen on EI then you are in fuckin cuckoo land.
So if you ask me the question then its a definite no no no , do you hear me i said no.

On the other hand if we call it an EI friendship where it is all a charade and fakey fakey then you could say yes.
I chat to alot of ladies in the chat room and get friendly with them , enjoy the bit of banter , meet up with them , tell them they are the most beautiful escort i have ever met , they tell me i have the biggest cock they have ever seen etc.... so who's telling the biggest fibs. Me of course.......
So from this view the answer is yes but as said before when the spondulicks run out will your friend still be around......pffff

So lets not kid ourselves here. I always behave like the perfect gent and treat the ladies with respect and yes we are all humans with feelings but don't tell me you let your personal feelings come to the fore. Recipe for disaster but it is nice to be nice.

Your dearest friend.
Maxi xxx

[JAMESCORK]

I have to say, after reading through this whole thread, I still find the question bizarre. It's like posting a thread "Could you be friends with an air traffic controller?" And some of the responses are equally bizarre. More or less at the level of "Yes, I could be friends with an air traffic controller, but only if I stopped flying."

Ha ha ha ... Good point Gordie..but as you approach the foggy landingstrip in you Cessna 2 seater with your friendly Escort seated beside you... Who do you really want as a friend now....

[Doozer]

The answer to this question depends on your view or valuation of the term friend or friendship and it can be answered both yes and no.

My take on the term friend is someone who i would arrange to meet for a drink , someone who knows where i live , my partners name , what i do etc..... and someone who knows my real name and if you think any of the above is ever going to happen on EI then you are in fuckin cuckoo land.
So if you ask me the question then its a definite no no no , do you hear me i said no.

On the other hand if we call it an EI friendship where it is all a charade and fakey fakey then you could say yes.
I chat to alot of ladies in the chat room and get friendly with them , enjoy the bit of banter , meet up with them , tell them they are the most beautiful escort i have ever met , they tell me i have the biggest cock they have ever seen etc.... so who's telling the biggest fibs. Me of course.......
So from this view the answer is yes but as said before when the spondulicks run out will your friend still be around......pffff

So lets not kid ourselves here. I always behave like the perfect gent and treat the ladies with respect and yes we are all humans with feelings but don't tell me you let your personal feelings come to the fore. Recipe for disaster but it is nice to be nice.

Your dearest friend.
Maxi xxx

I take it you dont live up to your sig so Maxi

[Experienced Punter esq]

The answer to this question depends on your view or valuation of the term friend or friendship and it can be answered both yes and no.

My take on the term friend is someone who i would arrange to meet for a drink , someone who knows where i live , my partners name , what i do etc..... and someone who knows my real name and if you think any of the above is ever going to happen on EI then you are in fuckin cuckoo land.
So if you ask me the question then its a definite no no no , do you hear me i said no.

On the other hand if we call it an EI friendship where it is all a charade and fakey fakey then you could say yes.
I chat to alot of ladies in the chat room and get friendly with them , enjoy the bit of banter , meet up with them , tell them they are the most beautiful escort i have ever met , they tell me i have the biggest cock they have ever seen etc.... so who's telling the biggest fibs. Me of course.......
So from this view the answer is yes but as said before when the spondulicks run out will your friend still be around......pffff

So lets not kid ourselves here. I always behave like the perfect gent and treat the ladies with respect and yes we are all humans with feelings but don't tell me you let your personal feelings come to the fore. Recipe for disaster but it is nice to be nice.

Your dearest friend.
Maxi xxx

thats very well said I think we are getting confused here with the definition of an acqaintance & a friend to me a friend is someone I hang out with & trust I couldnt feel that same way with an escort as JamesCork said how can u be sure its a true friendship when money is being handed over? u will have loads of acquaintances in life but only few true friends trying to divert the thread to say its disrespecting escorts is silly its a comment a view an opinion for Gods sake why cant it just be seen as such...

[English Milly Masseuse]

I see nothing wrong with having escorts as friends, as Lucy said, "We are human beings too". I'm very pally with Alana, Brown Sugar is a bit of a mate too and several others, it's kind of friends at a distance. It's lovely knowing them, a nice little bit of banter before they lower their bum onto your face. I love escorts to pieces and I like them as my friends.

If they were all like you................