Friendship with an escort?

[Westsidex]

Its like a guy going to court with his lawyer and then going home later saying "i think i made a true friend in this lawyer. He even sat all morning next to me".

Westside.

[robijntje]

Ex clients maybe. Any guy who is friends with an escort and he is still engaging in business with her is not a true friend. A true friend does not do business with an escort.

Westside.

Define business.

[ChiefHandker]

Its like a guy going to court with his lawyer and then going home later saying "i think i made a true friend in this lawyer. He even sat all morning next to me".

Westside.

So by your logic you're saying that you couldn't be friends with your GP, your electrician or the person you buy your morning newspaper off. If that's the case then people would live a lonely existence.
Couldn't disagree more with you.

[Sam Spade]

I know it's hard to believe, but there are definitely people out there who don't call an escort simply to 'fuck one another'...

As I said its the interpretation of Friendship.
Can a true friend be 'client and escort' with one paying the other for help and support, whether fucking or not?
I don't think so.

The best we can hope for is to truly like an escort, to be very friendly towards, but never reach the pinnacle of 'true friendship'.
True friendship is at a different level, a discussion which would cover many pages on this site.

[robijntje]

So by your logic you're saying that you couldn't be friends with your GP, your electrician or the person you buy your morning newspaper off. If that's the case then people would live a lonely existence.
Couldn't disagree more with you.

Exactly. I'm friends with my landlord, even though I do mainly business with him. It happens regularly that we just have a drink and talk about different subjects, on a level where friends would do so.

Friendship, like love, is just another word that needs to be filled in by each individual. We can continue to bash each other and argue, or just be mature and stop this discussion alltogether.

[Sam Spade]

So by your logic you're saying that you couldn't be friends with your GP, your electrician or the person you buy your morning newspaper off. If that's the case then people would live a lonely existence.
Couldn't disagree more with you.

Perhaps this raises the question of professional distance?

[Westsidex]

So by your logic you're saying that you couldn't be friends with your GP, your electrician or the person you buy your morning newspaper off. If that's the case then people would live a lonely existence.
Couldn't disagree more with you.

Thats a load of bullshit and here is why. A person doesnt have sexual activity with these ppl. They do with an escort. From all the requests that escorts get from guys trust me when i say its a nice change for them to have a male friend that doesnt look for sexual stuff. Someone that they can meet ,phone ,have a chat to knowing that there is no requests or anything like that. Now if something developed out of that friendship which lead to more then well and good but thats a different story.

Look at it from an escorts end. You would get pretty sick shit of all the asking for sexual stuff even if you are getting paid for it.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Exactly. I'm friends with my landlord, even though I do mainly business with him. It happens regularly that we just have a drink and talk about different subjects, on a level where friends would do so.

Friendship, like love, is just another word that needs to be filled in by each individual. We can continue to bash each other and argue, or just be mature and stop this discussion alltogether.

But do you tell your landlord I will give you 50 for a bj? Stick with escorts. Its escorts im talking about here, not your landlord ,milkman or paperboy.

You asked me to define business. I dont have to because we all know what it is. As for freebies thats lack of respect unless a friendship lead along that path and its not a freebie then but either a fling ,something that just happened (which may ,may not be regrettable later) or a relationship.

Westside.

[Sam Spade]

Thats a load of bullshit and here is why. A person doesnt have sexual activity with these ppl. They do with an escort. From all the requests that escorts get from guys trust me when i say its a nice change for them to have a male friend that doesnt look for sexual stuff. Someone that they can meet ,phone ,have a chat to knowing that there is no requests or anything like that. Now if something developed out of that friendship which lead to more then well and good but thats a different story.

Look at it from an escorts end. You would get pretty sick shit of all the asking for sexual stuff even if you are getting paid for it.

Westside.

Well said, couldn't agree more.

[ChiefHandker]

Thats a load of bullshit and here is why. A person doesnt have sexual activity with these ppl. They do with an escort. From all the requests that escorts get from guys trust me when i say its a nice change for them to have a male friend that doesnt look for sexual stuff. Someone that they can meet ,phone ,have a chat to knowing that there is no requests or anything like that. Now if something developed out of that friendship which lead to more then well and good but thats a different story.

Look at it from an escorts end. You would get pretty sick shit of all the asking for sexual stuff even if you are getting paid for it.

Westside.

Hang on now a minute, I was using YOUR example concerning a lawyer:
"Its like a guy going to court with his lawyer and then going home later saying "i think i made a true friend in this lawyer. He even sat all morning next to me".
Now back to my point, if I meet my GP on the street or in a bar of course i'll stop and chat to him. It's completely different to meeting them in their Professional capacity. Here's a guy who's seen me at my most vunerable and knows thing about me that my cloesest of friends don't - but he's a professional so that in no way compromises the possibility of me striking up a friendship with him.
Now back to escorts, when you meet a girl she is also meeting you in her professional capacity and provides a professional service just as the doctor does. So I don't see why this should jeopardise the possibility of also striking a friendship with an escort outside of her professional capacity should the circumstances for a friendship come about. Unless you attach some emotional significance to the service she provides then it should be no different than the situation with the doctor.