Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

[nicegirlsarenice]

It's probably a suspension rather than a permanent ban (even though it says banned). I'm wondering what it could be though since she's no longer advertising on this site.

[The Plumber]

I think you learn to tell with experience.
People are people.

[Irish Soairsa]

Hi all,
I retired last June but it is always in the back of my mind.
I miss some of my clients and the variety that escorting brought to my life.
If a bill comes in and my savings dip, I get overwhelmed and miss the substancial income I was on.
If certain topics come up in converstion in my social circle, I find it difficult not to give my view without being detected as an escort.
As for becoming hardened, I opened my heart with difficulty and was honest about my background but it didn't stop me getting hurt in the end, twice and now I feel like I am totally hardened to men in general. However, while escorting may have added to this 'hardened' way to men, I do know many women who have no real knowledge of the sex industry who feel the same 'hardened feelings' toward men. Lets be clear, I love men but my trust or ability to trust is long gone and I feel that this will impact on the amount of effort I put into future relationships.
Having turned my back on the industry, I feel a pull to come back so often that I wonder if it is possible to go back to life before my first client again. The word normal is too ambiguous as this is normal for me now.
Would love to hear form any escorts or clients who have succuessflully moved on and away from from the industry but if they have, they will not be on here to read this thread lol

[Sam Spade]

Speaking from an older guys perspective (47 years), I am glad I didn't punt when I was young.
My expectations would be too high.
Most of the ladies I have seen lately are gorgeous. Even the average looking ladies would look stunning if you passed them on the street.
I sometimes read reviews commenting on the ladies looks. I wonder which perspective the punter is looking at her?
As an experienced punter looking for perfection, or as the normal guy?
Trust me I see hundreds of girls passed my premises each day - and only a few would match up to the beauty of the escorts on this site.
Do I think these ladies charge too much for their time - no way. I think we should be so lucky to experience their company for such small amounts.
I may be glad I didn't put when I was young, but I am so glad now I am enjoying the fruits of such punting.

[BruceAlmighty]

I'm not a trained psychologist (unlike everyone else on the interhighway) and I have huge respect for Soairsa for airing her position.

[Westsidex]

Hi all,
I retired last June but it is always in the back of my mind.
I miss some of my clients and the variety that escorting brought to my life.
If a bill comes in and my savings dip, I get overwhelmed and miss the substancial income I was on.
If certain topics come up in converstion in my social circle, I find it difficult not to give my view without being detected as an escort.
As for becoming hardened, I opened my heart with difficulty and was honest about my background but it didn't stop me getting hurt in the end, twice and now I feel like I am totally hardened to men in general. However, while escorting may have added to this 'hardened' way to men, I do know many women who have no real knowledge of the sex industry who feel the same 'hardened feelings' toward men. Lets be clear, I love men but my trust or ability to trust is long gone and I feel that this will impact on the amount of effort I put into future relationships.
Having turned my back on the industry, I feel a pull to come back so often that I wonder if it is possible to go back to life before my first client again. The word normal is too ambiguous as this is normal for me now.
Would love to hear form any escorts or clients who have succuessflully moved on and away from from the industry but if they have, they will not be on here to read this thread lol

Its in the back of your mind sweetie because you never let go completely as evidenced by you logging in here. No offense, i mean that in a nice way.

Westside.

[Notatwork]

"Hardened" A word have seen used widely on E-I over the years to describe escorts,after nearly 7 years of punting i feel i am little qualified to give my opinion on this thread.
Over the years i have met plenty of new girls,here for a year and then gone,but some stay longer much longer,they arrive in Ireland,very little money,ambitious and good for them BUT i have seen some escorts make the big money how they change........and not for the better,In time they will rept what they have sowed.On the other side i have met and know escorts who are as down to earth and humble as the day they arrived here.A lovely strait in a person.

[The Plumber]

I think it is great to hear all these stories from human beings. Life is like that when it breaks it can be fixed but is never the same. I believe you can quit but you will never be the way you were. You have done things, been places and experienced things that other wise you might never have experienced. Like a smoker you have ever only truely kicked the habit when you have stopped counting the days and remembering the times you have had. Alot of people can not deal with stuff like having worked as an escort but there are alot out there who can. We are all different and you have to do what you fell is right at the time. Trust is important but so is status quo of relationships. Lies are what we use to protect our loved ones from hurt. Escorts who kick the habit can use promotional work to explain some of the money they earned, the hours they worked during their time in this industry. They are called white lies. Lies, deceit and manulipation are all human traits it is what you do with them makes you good or bad. These traits are used every day by people who sell. Manulipate you in feeling that you need it, deceive you in distrating you with the pros and lie to you to seal the deal, "everybody's buying them!".
This will all depend on the sales person how you feel about this. You might have bought several product off them over the years and trust them.
Mothers all over the world use lies, deceit and manulipation to protect their children. This doesn't mean they don't have love and trust.

[jggy2003]

I have nothing to add to the topic here but it is awesome to see so many of our favourite ladies posting sincerely and genuinely on the topic.

It gives a very real perspective on the lives of those with whom we enjoy spending our time. Well done to all.

I agree with all you have said. I hate going to an escort where the language barrier means we can't talk.. but this post shows how many articulate women are in the business ..