Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[TommyH123]

I’m wondering what the protocol is for giving or not giving your forum name to someone you might be thinking about seeing who is active on the forums? They haven’t asked. I suppose if you have a great time and say so everyone is happy. If you don’t various levels of akwardness are a possibility. Also there is the possibility as In perceptions coming from interactions online that neither of you are what they expected built on preconceptions they may have about you or vice versa.

If I’d contacted her via pm then she already has it, if it was a WhatsApp arrangement I’d only mention it if I’d interacted with her on the forum, sometimes I just want to avoid the review request so it’s easier to keep your profile off grid