Discretion and Hygiene

[Eroticfunlover]

I thought long and hard on whether to put this and decided I should.
I recently visited a girl in Cork that I had seen a few times about 10 years ago. I arrived at her apartment all excited exactly at the appointed time. Called and got no answer. About 5 minutes later I got a text "Few minutes". 2 minutes later there is a guy leaving the building and I get a text "Go at the door". Now the guy is sitting in his car on the phone and is clearly watching me enter the building.
Now I have two points to make about this...Firstly it is mentioned in her reviews that she has a lovely discreet apartment but that's no good if the girl is not discreet at all. Surely she should allow a few minutes between clients gor discretion purposes.
Second point....there was no time for her to attend to her personal hygiene with a turnaround that quick. In fact she took the 2 minutes it took me to get to the apartment to have a cigarette because I could smell it on her. With all that in mind there were some things that I wasnt interested in doing then which took from the enjoyment of the meeting .
Anyway I'm not going to name names here but if any Cork lads want the heads up feel free to PM me because I think if girls are not discreet it puts our anonymity at risk

[Lisa007]

You can’t know that the guy leaving the building was leaving her place. You just assumed so which changed your whole perspective about the encounter.
Maybe she just wanted to finish whatever she decided to do before your appointment, like maybe eating , or finish her cigarette and get dressed. Me, I don’t sit around in sexy lingerie all day waiting for calls. So even if you show up at the exact time I sometimes might ask for a minute to get ready.
Jumping to conclusions is never a good idea.
With zero reviews and freshly joined on the forums I would be very careful spreading nasty rumours through PM

[Eroticfunlover]

You can’t know that the guy leaving the building was leaving her place. You just assumed so which changed your whole perspective about the encounter.
Maybe she just wanted to finish whatever she decided to do before your appointment, like maybe eating , or finish her cigarette and get dressed. Me, I don’t sit around in sexy lingerie all day waiting for calls. So even if you show up at the exact time I sometimes might ask for a minute to get ready.
Jumping to conclusions is never a good idea.
With zero reviews and freshly joined on the forums I would be very careful spreading nasty rumours through PM

Point taken. That is why I didn't mention a name. I only joined the forum recently because I retired from full time work. I've been doing this on and off for many years and believe me that guy was a punter. Could be spotted a mile away. I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice.
What I will do just in case I am wrong is not respond to any PMs

[AmorInfinito8]

Point taken. That is why I didn't mention a name. I only joined the forum recently because I retired from full time work. I've been doing this on and off for many years and believe me that guy was a punter. Could be spotted a mile away. I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice.
What I will do just in case I am wrong is not respond to any PMs

You state:

" I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice."

So do you only visit Opt-outs!?
just curious 🤔

Also girls can travel in two's and a good location etc apartment block could have more than one apartment booked by girls

Just because you see a guy leaving an apartment block doesn't mean anything!!

[AmyTantraMassage]

Point taken. That is why I didn't mention a name. I only joined the forum recently because I retired from full time work. I've been doing this on and off for many years and believe me that guy was a punter. Could be spotted a mile away. I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice.
What I will do just in case I am wrong is not respond to any PMs

Was it her punter though? Did her room smell like sex? You could have picked a none smoker. There's a reason it's an option on our profiles.

We can't control who comes and goes from apartments. Or how many girls work in it/when their clients leave. You went in with your mind made up that even if she'd brien her back trying to please you, you'd have still found the punt terrible.

[Eroticfunlover]

You state:

" I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice."

So do you only visit Opt-outs!?
just curious 🤔

Also girls can travel in two's and a good location etc apartment block could have more than one apartment booked by girls

Just because you see a guy leaving an apartment block doesn't mean anything!!

Why would you suggest I only see opt outs because I don't review. That's silly !!!!
I see well established girls with good reviews but I CHOSE not to review. I'm only recently back in Ireland after working away for a few years. I thought it might be a good idea to make other guys aware of this situation. Perhaps I was wrong.
To address another of your points the girl in question is not a touring escort so unlikely there are others working there

[IrishSarahBarra]

Point taken...What I will do just in case I am wrong is not respond to any PMs

Good man lol

[Lisa007]

Point taken. That is why I didn't mention a name. I only joined the forum recently because I retired from full time work. I've been doing this on and off for many years and believe me that guy was a punter. Could be spotted a mile away. I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice.
What I will do just in case I am wrong is not respond to any PMs

I think that would be wise and fair.
I don’t understand when you say “she is not touring so it’s unlikely there are others there” ?!
There definitely can be other apartments in the building where others can work, not sure what her touring status might affect that. That assuming that she is not sharing and the guy exiting the building was a punter. Although again I not sure how you spot them when they leave?! Do they walk around with their flyers down? I can understand when they arrive, maybe on their phones and a bit lost, but not when they leave. There is a lot of assumptions being made here

[Eroticfunlover]

I think that would be wise and fair.
I don’t understand when you say “she is not touring so it’s unlikely there are others there” ?!
There definitely can be other apartments in the building where others can work, not sure what her touring status might affect that. That assuming that she is not sharing and the guy exiting the building was a punter. Although again I not sure how you spot them when they leave?! Do they walk around with their flyers down? I can understand when they arrive, maybe on their phones and a bit lost, but not when they leave. There is a lot of assumptions being made here

I thought a lot about whether I should make the original post. I thought it might be helpful to other punters. I accept now that it was probably not a good idea

[AmorInfinito8]

Why would you suggest I only see opt outs because I don't review. That's silly !!!!
I see well established girls with good reviews but I CHOSE not to review. I'm only recently back in Ireland after working away for a few years. I thought it might be a good idea to make other guys aware of this situation. Perhaps I was wrong.
To address another of your points the girl in question is not a touring escort so unlikely there are others working there

You state:

" I have never reviewed because I don't believe in the system at all....personal choice."

Which infers you hold absolutely no value for reviews

my Opt-Out question was a little flippant to make a point

I would suggest if you had a choice between a girl with 100 5* reviews or a girl who Opt-out you would choose the girl with reviews!?

That being the case you clearly hold some value for reviews but simple choose not to give them!?