Originally Posted by
Madgar
Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.
I get what you're saying but the 10 year difference in age varies in impact depending on the ages in question. The difference in mentality between an 18yo and a 28yo is fairly minimal (especially if the fella is the older one) make them 25/35 and it's a vast difference (completely different perspectives on life {in general}), fast forward to 34/44 an the age gap barley means anything...
As it relates to the site, these are independent, self-employed, self-motivated, professionals; so ask if they are comfortable with someone in your age range and get an answer. If it's a mental hurdle you can't overcome then stick to providers in your comfort zone (personally, I tend to want to stay in the late 20s to mid 30s, but that's a me thing...and there are some exceptions).
Last edited by IAmLIAm; 09-04-24 at 15:03.
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