Older gent

[AmyTantraMassage]

Yeah not to sound conceited but, I'm not really concerned about whether a provider is going to get hot and bothered.

I KNOW they're gonna get hot and bothered.

It's the response to getting hot and bothered that's more so the consideration.

It can be what's known as "polarizing", kind of a "love you" or "hate you" thing.

I've come through the door sometimes and I can literally see the provider go, "OMG!! Instant horny!".

And then as per my anecdote on the previous page, some providers are like, "Instant horny, but no! No no no! .......... I hate you! Bastard!", lol.

My thinking is, they're on the job and determined to keep it about business?

I had this girl one time, she waited until I paid her to put on a g-string, comes back in the room and lays out on the bed like, "take me!!".
Admittedly I wasn't on my best that day, performance wise, so her been aroused, turned to being crazy..... etc etc. (i.e. the "I love you" turned into "I hate you")

When you're an emotionally draining person, you leak out whatever feeling you have. Women are highly empathetic. I'm sure you'd have noticed you drain the woken you visit out of energy in a short amount of time. It's nothing to brag about. Most girls who do this work sometimes don't know how to block themselves from takers. It's why we prefer receivers than takers. Those who receive only what we're willing to give as opposed to those who start draining is no warning.

[AmyTantraMassage]

As a maturer gent (50-60), what are the ladies opinions about the more rounded and hairier type of customer, but clean and respectful.

90% of my clients are way older than you lol. Be clean. Be respectful. Don't test her boundaries. Have impeccable oral and genital hygiene. Oh and make sure to always clean under your nails.

[JennyIrish]

When you're an emotionally draining person, you leak out whatever feeling you have. Women are highly empathetic. I'm sure you'd have noticed you drain the woken you visit out of energy in a short amount of time. It's nothing to brag about. Most girls who do this work sometimes don't know how to block themselves from takers. It's why we prefer receivers than takers. Those who receive only what we're willing to give as opposed to those who start draining is no warning.

I think thank that cid guy is just a troll talking bull but I totally relate to what you’ve said here!! I have days where a lot of meets can turn into counselling sessions, I don’t mind a client talking about something he might be going through but sometimes if there have been a few meets like this I feel so emotionally drained and get annoyed at myself, thinking I have enough of my own worries, why am I taking on other ppls stress too!!

[Scrumhalf9]

When you're an emotionally draining person, you leak out whatever feeling you have. Women are highly empathetic. I'm sure you'd have noticed you drain the woken you visit out of energy in a short amount of time. It's nothing to brag about. Most girls who do this work sometimes don't know how to block themselves from takers. It's why we prefer receivers than takers. Those who receive only what we're willing to give as opposed to those who start draining is no warning.

That’s a very good description of a certain type of person. If it’s any good to you, that kind of person drains all of us. In defining it, you're giving us all a hint as to where to draw the line with people generally. Thanks for that. We need reminding sometimes.

[Forceuser]

Yeah not to sound conceited but, I'm not really concerned about whether a provider is going to get hot and bothered.

I KNOW they're gonna get hot and bothered.

It's the response to getting hot and bothered that's more so the consideration.

It can be what's known as "polarizing", kind of a "love you" or "hate you" thing.

I've come through the door sometimes and I can literally see the provider go, "OMG!! Instant horny!".

And then as per my anecdote on the previous page, some providers are like, "Instant horny, but no! No no no! .......... I hate you! Bastard!", lol.

My thinking is, they're on the job and determined to keep it about business?

I had this girl one time, she waited until I paid her to put on a g-string, comes back in the room and lays out on the bed like, "take me!!".
Admittedly I wasn't on my best that day, performance wise, so her been aroused, turned to being crazy..... etc etc. (i.e. the "I love you" turned into "I hate you")

That is literally the exact opposite reaction of what i've experienced with any escort i've ever had a
physical spark with.

being familiar with with your personality through your many iterations on this forum,i have to conclude you are
confusing all that nonsense you wrote with the escorts in question gradually getting a sense of said personality throughout the
meeting and disliking you on that basis

[philipkntz]

The doorbell instructions are becoming an increasing problem, especially when the keypad numbers are worn , the lighting is poor and you forget your glasses !

Something I've noticed recently. The most worn numbers are the ones you need. Just need to get them in the correct order.

[InsidiousCid]

90% of my clients are way older than you lol.

I got to say I find it interesting you admit this so readily when, conversely, about 90% of escorts so vehemently swear they have male models banging their door down at all times of day and night.

I think it's about image, probably?

Understandably, I guess.

Their #LoveMyWork, #LoveMyJob pretense of glamour or being a young, hot, international jet-setting playgirl might not hold up under scrutiny very long, if they just openly admitted the men funding their lifestyle were old enough to be their grandfather?

lol

To be fair, I probably shouldn't judge, but given how critical workers are of clients, sometimes their lame, transparent bravado gets a little tiresome.

Not to mention, some girls act like they're so "above it", where the reality is they're just going for lowest possible hanging fruit (no offence, but we all know it).

Anyways, workers have the right to complain about clients, right? Well, if I may be extended a similar courtesy, as a client it would be nice if that type just dropped their little charade and maybe turned down the fakeness a notch.

God forbid, we might get a better service with less overwhelming bad attitude and on occasion, spiteful resentment.

[WeeJimmy]

We had an elderly gentlemen at a gangbang party a year ago and while giving one of the ladies oral he left his top teeth behind him on her, God love him, was so funny.
Elderly guys should get more involved, Just go for it ... LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT

[Moocher]

I got to say I find it interesting you admit this so readily when, conversely, about 90% of escorts so vehemently swear they have male models banging their door down at all times of day and night.

I think it's about image, probably?

Understandably, I guess.

Their #LoveMyWork, #LoveMyJob pretense of glamour or being a young, hot, international jet-setting playgirl might not hold up under scrutiny very long, if they just openly admitted the men funding their lifestyle were old enough to be their grandfather?

lol

To be fair, I probably shouldn't judge, but given how critical workers are of clients, sometimes their lame, transparent bravado gets a little tiresome.

Not to mention, some girls act like they're so "above it", where the reality is they're just going for lowest possible hanging fruit (no offence, but we all know it).

Anyways, workers have the right to complain about clients, right? Well, if I may be extended a similar courtesy, as a client it would be nice if that type just dropped their little charade and maybe turned down the fakeness a notch.

God forbid, we might get a better service with less overwhelming bad attitude and on occasion, spiteful resentment.

Other than the odd reference, I can't remember escorts boasting about how many young guys they attract over older guys.

When you think about it, its quite obvious that older guys would make up the majority of escort clients. The younger guys probably believe they should be able to pull in civvy street, we don't suffer from that pressure. My understanding is that any escort entering the industry is well aware that she has to be age flexible. Having said that, I usually like the escort to confirm that she is happy to meet older gents, just to be sure to be sure.